Rimjob? My girlfriend wants me to give her a rimjob, but I am not into it. Is it really pleasurable for the person who receive it or not worth it?

[Anonymous]

I don't wanna make her feel bad by saying that am not into it. So I would like to know how should I approach it if I have to give her rj. Advices would be really helpful

[MadManInBlueBox]

I have a complete oral fetish, and giving a woman an rj is one of my favorites. My face in that region might give me more pleasure than she gets.

Still, if you don't want to, that's your choice. You wouldn't demand her to give you a blue job, would you? Or to swallow your cum?

But, if you're a little curios, don't worry. Tips:

Ask her if she'd be willing to try it IN the shirt first. This shows her to clean it good. If course, she should ALWAYS do this regardless, but this may help you get passed any mental barriers. Honestly, if you really think about it, oral sex in general is probably one of the dirtiest sexual acts we could do (without getting into songs really weird stuff). I honestly would love to meet the ancient ancestor who decided to put our biological waste system in his or her mouth to begin with (was probably a slavery/domination/submission thing).

Regardless of who is pleasuring who, just be clean, and resurrect each other's wishes. If she can't be with you for this reason, let her find someone else to do it and move on.

[Dreamweaver671]

First. Have her void her colen by either voiding in a toilet or via enema. Take a shower with her and help her clean between her legs throughly. Make sure you soap and rinse between her ass cheeks several times and if possible insert a finger into her ass to also clean the inner spinster. Dry you and her off with a towel. Lay her on the bed or table or sofa. Start by concentrating on her pussy. Make sure she has a pillow under her hips and spread her legs wide to give you access to her vagina and anus. Take your time and use long strokes on her pussy until you are starting the strokes with your tongue over her spinster. Then alternate tracing the outline of her vulva and the outline of her spinster. Soon you will be an expert at tossing her salad.

[Dreamweaver671]

It's an hour to be the guru purveyor of ass munching and shit licking. ; ) Thank You

[wonderingstarxo]

Hahaha I personally don't like having my ass hole licked... Fingered is fine. But not licked... HOWEVER... as a man.. Ur gspot is in ur rectum.. Tell her u guys can 69 and do it to each other... It will blow ur mind!!! I've never licked an ass hole but I have licked the taint and fingered/used toys in a man's ass... And my God... The amount of precum produced is insane... And they cum SO hard!! Give it a go.. Take a shower together get everything clean, and go for it

[rippedabs]

just imagine.. if a black guy put his tongue in your pink anal hole and rubs your clit you will not like?

[Asker]

Thank you!! you gave a very good suggestion related to mutual pleasure;but am not really comfortable with something sexual related to anus;not even comfy with getting my ass licked;so first I have to get used to giving rimjob and then used to receiving a rj; if everything goes well I will surely implement on your opinion;thanks a lot!!!

[wonderingstarxo]

You will love it 😉 have fun!

[travisx2019]

totally agree... i cum the hardest when my prostate is massaged... it's knee buckling good ha

[wonderingstarxo]

Yep!!!

[HMG9999]

I’ve had them and it is pleasurable if you’re into it and if she’s asking for it then it’s clearly something she likes otherwise she wouldn’t ask so I say express your concerns but if you really like her then just do it to make her happy

[Asker]

I wanna make her happy so am thinking of doing it but am not fully comfortable with it;what about the hygiene part;like cleaning before it; something which can be used to be completely clean down there?

[HMG9999]

I can understand that concern so just politely ask her to shower thoroughly before, and then just clean your mouth out after, if it’s still bothering you, you can always use a dental dam as a barrier

[Asker]

Thank you for your valuable insight on this!!

[Anonymous]

Tell her thats some BS “literally” and that you refuse to put your mouth in such a dirty area. Its hot to watch in porn but i’d never partake in it

[Asker]

She says she would clean it before I give one.. so would it be a good idea still?

[Opinion Owner]

No its unsanitary no matter how clean

[Asker]

ohhh you share the same concerns as me;thanks for the reply

[Mr___A]

I like to give, less to receive...

By the way, just be careful about two things:
1/ she must be cleaned up (of course)
2/ beware about the lube... most have a bad taste! I recommand to rim her only with your tongue and saliva, and use lube if you come to have anal sex.

To start, use saliva on your finger to tease her and make her horny. It will open her ass slowly. I love give her a head while rubbing her ass! ;-)

Then when you feel it's open slightly, come to the RJ.
With your other hand, rub her pussy.

And then enjoy, and eat her till hell falls on earth!

[desidoll]

It is pleasurable but I don't like the idea. I have had an ex who gave me one. I was shocked 😮

[Toad-1]

I love it 😉😈

[Asker]

Lol why were you shocked?

[desidoll]

Because he didn't warn me first. He was giving me oral and suddenly went to the different area 😂

[Toad-1]

you'll receive ample warning next time ;)

[spartan55]

I will bet you've had worse things in your mouth before than some sweet ass.

[Asker]

Nope buddy; I think I have never had anything bad in my mouth;lol... but I will give it a try

[spartan55]

You obviously don't know much about the food you eat then 'buddy'.

[Asker]

Haha yup true lol, am really not much knowledgeable about food.. thanks for making me realize..

[Pamina]

I love getting rimjobs. It's super pleasurable.

[Asker]

Thanks.. if it's pleasurable for her then I will give it a try!!!

[Pamina]

Maybe you'll learn to like it too then.

[Asker]

Yeah maybe.. but am not too sure about it;I never really thought of any sexual thing related to butthole until she demanded about it;now am thinking ways to somehow do it and get accustomed to it..

[Pamina]

Do you like women's butts though?

[Asker]

Lol I do love women's butts!! They are damn sexy, but attraction towards butt cheeks are different and anus is something different.. right?

[Wass_PL]

@Pamina That's proof you're arrogant. You make a mockery of Jesus and think sex is a joke. God specifically said sex is for marriage only. And you obviously have never danced with the blood stained hands and garment of Jesus, nor consecrated your life towards Jesus, being remnant and shouted JESUS or you'd know Jesus is not like other gods. You call me delusional but you're the delusional one who refuses to accept Jesus into your heart for having disbelief in Him. All you have to do is accept Jesus and ask Him to forgive you of your disbelief. Don't suffer the fate that Stephen Hawking did my rejecting Jesus for salvation. When you're dead, it's too late. Don't be a fool. My heart cries out for you because you're on my soul to weep for. I fear you'll be stubborn and keep disbelieving. I want you to accept Jesus and quit this nonsense.

[Pamina]

@Wass_PL Hi stalker. I'm gonna block every single one of your accounts immediately and not even read your ramblings. So you might as well just give up now.

[Asker]

@Pamina: My apologies!! Since my question led to you getting trolled by someone;am thankful for your opinion

[Quaker_TALK]

Asker. I'm not trolling.

[Pamina]

@Quaker_TALK You really need to take your meds again, kid. Your schizophrenia is starting to get the best of you. :D But on the other hand, this is quite hilarious to me!

[Pamina]

Asker, it's not your fault, so don't worry. Sorry that he keeps commenting on your question. By the way, he's not trolling, he's seriously a mental case. He keeps creating new accounts to harrass me. And the funny thing is, he's the one who kept saying I need to accept Jesus as my savior to become a better person. Now look at him harrassing me and threatenting to sexually molest my (non existing) little daughter. What a great moral person he is, huh? Praise Jesus! :D

[Asker]

@Pamina: Yeah how sad it is; people are still at their hypocratical best even when Easter is approaching; words speak something else while thoughts and deeds are all haywire..

[Pamina]

I think from now on it's best we we just ignore him and not reply to him at all anymore.

[egykimo]

May I give you... or you do the job at least lol

[Pamina]

@egykimo Sorry, I didn't get that. What?

[egykimo]

Oh it's a joke whatever!!

[Pamina]

Asker, why are you replying to someone in your updates instead of replying directly under their opinion?

[Asker]

Sorry that's a prob with my cellphone.. am just gonna close this question

[Mrniceguy04]

If it was for a booty call i would say helllll noooo but gey its for your lady so yea man you might have to do it for her def have some lube

[Asker]

Thanks for the opinion;ya it's something for my partner so am kinda caught in a catch 22 situation; will definitely use lube if I have to do it someday

[reptocarl]

My girlfriend loves it

[Asker]

Great to know; hope it took you a lot of practice to master it.. any advices on giving?

[reptocarl]

Just use your imagination

[Chaz269]

Yes, you should do it for her at least once. Then talk with each other about what you enjoyed and what you didn't. Be honest, yet considerate. Maybe she won't like it enough to ask again. Maybe you'll like it more than you think. Maybe not, and you'll have to discuss whether or not that's a deal breaker.
As far as the act itself goes, make sure she has vacated and thoroughly washed beforehand. I like to use flavored lube or food, like honey or jelly (avoid spicy foods!). It's a little messier, but more enjoyable for the one going down. Treat it just like cunnilingus; listen to her while you're doing it so you can respond to her cues. Otherwise, let nature take its course.

[girlsfunfirst]

It feels great but i couldn't give one

[Asker]

Yup true; it may feel great but I doubt if I could give one which could be pleasurable to her

[Asker]

Yup it may be pleasurable but I also doubt whether I could give one that's pleasurable to her due to my own reservations..

[girlsfunfirst]

Yeah agree

[Asker]

Really sorry; just realized I commented twice on this

[TacosRAwesome]

If you're not into it just don't bother.

[Asker]

Ya trying to do that; but am in a dilemma with this;have already expressed my concerns to her; she is asking me to just try for her sake and she assured me that it will be fine; so trusting her and gonna give a try this weekend

[Asker]

Yup I tried not to bother about it, but am in a real dilemma over this;I already expressed my concerns to her;but she wants me to try it and assured me that it will be fine... so going to give it a try this weekend

[Asker]

Really sorry I just realized I commented twice on this..

[BeWithMe]

Use a very lubed finger then anal with a condom as an alternative

[Asker]

Hey ya the lube thing sounds a very good idea

[gmrgrl]

Yes it's amazing both giving and receiving (I only rim girls tho)

[egykimo]

Try me on

[gmrgrl]

No..

[egykimo]

Lol ok

[Pallavimoon]

Yess u should give Ur girlfriend rim job or someone else will give

[egykimo]

Let me give you

[Pallavimoon]

Really?

[egykimo]

Iam dead serious

[Asker]

@Pallavimoon That's so rude of you to say that; I trust her and it won't happen even if I won't give..

[rippedabs]

stop being a pussy man lol give her a good rimjob and she will love

[Wass_PL]

What the heck is a rim job?

[CT_CD]

Tell her no

[phillyfan]

I love to give and receive rimjobs. The best is rimming my girlfriend and her bull while they fuck 😛😲

[Asker]

Lol cuckolding; am not at all into it;anyways thanks for the opinion

[Anonymous]

If your not comfortable doing it definitely tell her
It also really depends on the person some women don’t like it and some women do
I personally enjoy it

[Asker]

Won't it be a tickling feeling if I use tongue over there; any suggestions on how can it be pleasurable for my girl?

[Opinion Owner]

Not a tickling feeling anal play can be very pleasurable to women Play with the area and see what she likes

[Asker]

Thanks!!!