Rode my boyfriend for the first time... help?

I rode my boyfriend for the first time and felt embarrassed because I didn't know what to do. He tried to guide me but I just felt awkward and a little uncomfortable. He's my first so I'm very new to this but want to please him the next time... any tips? I'm very petite and he's average size with a nice size you know what. So help me please
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Cowgirl tips
    Here’s the way I have found, with the help of a very cooperative girlfriend, that a woman can ride her man all the way up the mountain to multiple, increasing powerful orgasms and ultimately, squirting.
    • He needs to understand that he can help with this position by grabbing her hips and helping her move. At first, leave to her own devices but as she gets more and more aroused, he should become stronger and more and more forceful in moving her back and forth.
    • Put him on his back and mount up with you on your knees.
    • Slide him in and settle in so you’re comfortable.
    • Rock like you’re riding a horse, slowly at first and faster as you get more aroused.
    • When you’re ready for him to help, reach down and put his hands on your hips. For effect, you can beg him in your sexy slut voice to help you.
    • When you start to get close to cumming, move like you’re trying your best to break that thing off. Of course, you won’t but the point is to not hold back. Just go crazy.
    • When you’re right on the edge, tell him to do you. He thrusts up as powerfully as he can and holds it with you impaled as deeply on his cock as possible, perched on his erection. He also forcefully tilts his hips and slams his shaft into your G-spot.
    • As you cum, don’t even slow down. Keep going and you will cum over and over, each time increasingly intense.
    • If you have The Big One, as I call it, you may very likely squirt so if there’s a gush, it’s not urine. It’s female ejaculate. Keep going until you’re completely done.
    Here are a few ancillary suggestions:
    • Pee first so that if you should squirt, you can be confident it’s not pee.
    • If you’re into S&M, have him forcefully pinch your nipples as you’re starting to cum.
    • He can slap your tits around if you’re into that. One girlfriend of mine liked to be slapped while she was up there with me telling her what a trashy slut she was for being up there in the first place.
    • Some ladies like their men to reach around and smack their ass while they ride.

    • Thanks for the MHG!! So how is it now, you naughty little cowgirl wench? ;)

  • Hi FC,

    I believe the fact is take it slow!

    When you go to mount him straddle him, then grasp his penis in your hand and tease him rub him against your clitoris let him feel how wet you are and your heat it will drive him crazy, Make sure you look him in the eyes as you do it and smile show him how much your enjoying it. Then after you have teased him for a while, slowly very slowly sit down and take as much of him inside yo as you can and just firmly grasp him and sit there. Tell him how big he feel and how much you love having him inside you... Then slowly withdraw and and go back to teasing him. Each time you repeat the process alter the angle and see what stimulates you best also try rotating your hips. Watch his expression and listen to how he moans, if he start to thrust up a him tell him your in control and he has to wait. Remember to give him a show, smile when you take him deeply and say things like: oh god that feels amazing, I love having you deep inside me etc etc. Then out of the blue clench firmly and just increase the pace and depth of penetration for a couple of minutes and then go back to slow teasing. By this stage he will be out of his mind and you should be close to orgasm. Then smile at him and say to him, I need you to take me and make me come. Hold on for the ride and enjoy it. Reminder the more erotic you make it the more enjoyable it will be :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • Well, it's about rhythm. Don't just wiggle your ass, lol. Like, I try to keep my head and feet in the same place and move only my ass as much as possible. And I kinda try like a gliding motion, moving my hips backwards and forwards and a little bit up and down too.

    It's like, diagonal down until his penis fills you up, then do the reverse. Lol, it's weird trying to type it

  • sure, it's one of my favorite positions. What felt awkward or uncomfortable? are you in decent shape?

    • I feel the same as her!!

    • @SmandyCandy I'm sorry same as the asker or me?

    • The asker lol sorry

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  • Stop overthinking it. Just relax. Let him guide you until you build your confidence up.

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  • Do what comes naturally don't overthink it. I'm sure he thought you did just fine!

  • The most important rules are keep it in and try not to break it, not one expect you to do it on a level of a porn star, especially if he knows that he is your first, you effort is more important then the result, for the time being, at he know that you are new to this, and I think that he would enjoy to see you trying anyway, and if it's really going no where and too slow for him, he can always take the control back, just do the best as you can, also most girls are too lazy and/or insecure to even try it, so the fact that you even willing to do it, is quite impressive on itself. :)

  • How is it possible that a girl doesn't know what to do? I mean seriously? Is it that hard of a concept that you have to move, either up and down, or back and forth? geez... it's not rocket science...

  • Try to find a comfortable position, angle. And practice with doing it more or with a dildo. It depends if he goes too deep. Some ladies like the penis it hitting the cervix and others are only sensitive the first few inches. Work at it. As long as you feel pleasure too. It's a two way street.

  • Watch some porn for tips and move up and down on it, you will get better with practice Im sure lol

  • Why be embarrassed? You should have no problem if you're comfortable with each other, just communicate and he will guide you

  • It's all about rotation and lift. It's like playing a video game sometimes. Up down rotate. If he's moaning he likes it. I would suggest the backwards cowgirl in a few weeks, but for now. If it feels good in you than he probably like it too. Since your on the smaller side it should be easier for you as well.

  • The only time I have is to listen to what he wants and when he guides you. Don't worry I'm sure you did fine with him. Give it a few tries and you will soon stop feeling embarrassed and your will learn what feels good for him and for you.