Rough sex ideas?

So last night my boy tied me up, spanked me etc and I absolutely loved it. Last night was the first time we got out of the "vanilla" sex and spiced things up so looking for more ideas for in the bedroom..
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Now this is my personal fantasy and something you might wish to save once you're a little more comfortable BUT:

    Being tied by your ankles and wrists to the bed posts, blindfolded and allowing him to use his fingers, tongue, any sex toys and his dick to pleasure you as he sees fit. Maybe even using ice, hot wax, etc. (As long as he knows to NOT drop the actual fire on you) and everytime you're about to orgasm, he stops and does something else.

    That might be a bit too much if you just recently stopped being vanilla but hey, it's something to try out in the future. :)

  • Don't do it in the bedroom, but outside in nature. On a sunny rock in a wildwater river, in the middle of a forest in the morning when the birds are singing, on the rim of an erupting volcano, ... Its big fun and increases your orgasm.

  • You could always try blind folding yourself too. It's a lot more exciting when you can't see what he's about to do to you next until you actually feel him do it

Most Helpful Guys

  • Spanking with various toys: different thicknesses and weights of paddles, straps, canes, and crops. Rough nipple play with hands and toys. If your nipples are too sensitive, apply some lidocane cream first. Rough handling of your boobs. Anal play with fingers and butt plugs.

    • Thanks for the MHG! What of the things I suggested sounds interesting?

  • Cool. Have fun but be safe. Read Jay Wiseman's "SM 101" for some good ideas. Then maybe "Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns" and "The Topping Book" and "The Bottoming Book"

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Have sex with him again?

    Have rough sex with him again?

    Yell out "RUFFF RUFFFF!!!" while having roughety-rough-rough sex with him again?

  • Being choked is my favorite "rough" thing. Along with spanking.

    • What about being tied up and the guy sucking on your vaginal lips till you cum? Is that good too?

    • Choking fetish crew checking in

  • If he's tall and jacked you should try wall sex. That's taking it to the next level 💦💦

  • I still don't understand how rough sex can be so stimulating, and not just painful... Do you think it will be impossible unless I try it myself?

  • Try ice cubes. I hear they are cool.

    get it?

    COOL?

    ICE CUBES?

    ...

    No?

    I see.

    Well, understandable. We can't all be clever.

    • @bcromartie LOLOL I lol'd IRL at that.

  • Anything BDSM

  • be in missionary position tie both legs and hands together, tell him to fuck you as hard he can.

  • Do you two have degrees