Saying "I love you" during sex. Hot or turn off?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

If my partner has already told me that she loves me, hearing it while making love is nice. If I only hear those words when we are making love, I don't trust that they are genuine.

My advice to young ladies is to not believe anything a guy says when he is not wearing his pants.

[Elafamk]

This is my advice too.

[Red_Arrow]

So a woman cannot trust her husband of 40 years first thing in the morning?

[OlderAndWiser]

@Red_Arrow "My advice to young ladies. . ." Do you qualify for me to render that advice to you?

[Red_Arrow]

Well I am the guy in the relationship so not me. And many couples still see their spouse as young and beautiful! So she does.

[OlderAndWiser]

@Red_Arrow My advice is intended for young people who do not know each other very well. I am sure you remember how young men have a way of saying whatever they think a young lady wants to hear. Forty years of experience with the same person trumps my advice every day of the week.

[FakeName123]

Definitely desirable. Though I assume for people who are into hook-ups it probably wouldn't be.

[redeyemindtricks]

My husband loves it so much that it makes him cum almost instantly when he's getting ready to finish.

It's worked in at the end of a stream of much dirtier things, but, still.

[mooky06]

Mmm maybe after having sex and it was all about them cuddles, saying I love you then, would be cool. I think it would be hot to say that during sex aswell.

[mooky06]

Thank you for MH

[RachelBrigs]

I wouldn't say hot? But if you love the person I'm sure it'll make you feel all warm and fuzzy. Wouldn't know though

[TazWax]

it happened to me and I politely told him to stop got dress and went home.

[HookingSwan]

lol i am assuming u werent his girlfriend

[TazWax]

@HookingSwan lol no. My boyfriend now when he does it it still makes me uncomfortable but he still does it.

[Toad-1]

Why does that make you uncomfortable?

[TazWax]

@Toad-1 If we are just "fucking" lets stick with that but if we are "making" love then it doesn't

[Toad-1]

If if you're his girlfriend that shoukdnt matter

[TazWax]

@Toad-1 I just feel like that's not the time. Like I already know he loves me.

[Toad-1]

Why isn't it the time? Sounds like a great time for that

[TazWax]

@Toad-1 I'm very strange when it comes to stuff like that.

[Red_Arrow]

I think if it is said between two people who do love each other, it adds to the intimacy. If it is said between two people just fucking with no relationship other than that, it becomes a "WTF moment".

[Shibbi]

I don't like it. unless it's very slow, sensual sex which is more cuddling than fucking... but I'm not that much into that

[meatballs21]

Turn off but only slightly. It's the heat of the moment, you're not thinking straight.

[croxy]

Not hot during rough sex, but go for it if you're having sensual romantic sex

[KaranSharma55]

why it would a turn off?

[Anonymous]

It depends! If you're with your SO it's sweet and romantic, kinda hot but if you're with a random hook up then it's pretty weird and creepy

[Anonymous]

That's hot.