Saying no to giving a blow Job?

[lonewolf1312]

Is it a bad thing to not want to give a blow job to your boyfriend?

[tinyclit]

That's not good. Is there something disgusting about his cock? Is he one of those unhealthy eaters and his cum tastes like chlorine bleach? Cock sucking and cum swallowing are very fun, enjoyable and satisfying. These are not things to be missed out on. Maybe you need a guy with a more appealing cock so that you can enjoy it? Or is this one of those mental issues? Those can be overcome. :)

[openhere]

Great to hear you disagree as im one of those guys who likes getting a blowjob and also giving one aswell. Nothing turns me on more than being with a older mature women and would love to know if you will be willing to show me just how good a blowjob should be as i have no doubt I'll receive the best blowjob ever from yourself and style. Lets chats more

[MissLogical]

No it's not bad. It's up to you want you want to do and what you feel comfortable doing. It would be the same if he didn't want to go down on you. Only do what you're comfortable doing and don't let anyone pressure you. Blow jobs aren't that important in a relationship and if he really cares about you he should accept that and respect you. Is there any specific reason why not?

[lonewolf1312]

I'm just not into oral sex honestly...

[MissLogical]

I can understand that, it is kinda off-putting for the most part.

[Pinay_ako]

It’s your choice not to do something you opposed to do. At the same time, it brings strain to your sexual relationship because he feels like you don’t fulfill his needs. But don’t expect him either to do it for you. So you guys have to talk about this before it breaks you guys apart assuming you both are serious and in love with each other.

[jimyee]

Its gonna cause problems at some point. Some acts of sex are more outlandish so its reasonable to not want to engage in them but this one is pretty vanillia.

[InfoBot]

No, it's your choice whether you want to do it or not. I'm sure you wouldn't force him to go down on you if he doesn't want to.

[taytayasks]

Not at all! You're setting boundaries for yourself and your relationship. It's perfectly fine

[Mattbowles]

Do you do it

[taytayasks]

Meaning?

[Mattbowles]

Do you mind head

[taytayasks]

No, personally I enjoy giving it but everyone is different

[Ms725]

Yes. If he wants one you gotta do it at least once in a while. Especially if you’re in a committed relationship. It goes both ways.. if there’s something you like, he should be doing it too!

[JulieXO]

Why would you say no though?

[kittycat119]

It's your choice ultimately. But it's somewhat selfish to not wanna give your guy pleasure and to make him feel good

[janeross09]

I had never done it because I thought it was disgusting but when I gave my actual boyfriend a blow job I enjoy it. I got turned on just by looking how much he was enjoying it

[AaronShaw1]

I always say no to sucking dick 😂

[aestheticsofty]

Lots of guys love getting blowjobs. Learn to like it

[scooogy]

do you like receiving oral?

[Nahid1234]

Yes she does. All girls do when you do it correctly with ya tongue

[scooogy]

@Nahid1234 well, I hardly hear any girl saying that she would

[Nahid1234]

Haha.

[aestheticsofty]

Lol 😂 @scoogy seriously?

[scooogy]

@Nahid1234 how many girls have you witnessed liking oral so far?

[scooogy]

*receiving oral

[Nahid1234]

All the girls i done it to, enjoyed it and craved it more

[aestheticsofty]

I’d say most people are into oral sex. Or at least a lot.

[scooogy]

@aestheticsofty yeah seriously. I only hear girls complain about how they smell down there and such. Damn, I just want to eat her out.

[aestheticsofty]

Eat who out?

[scooogy]

@aestheticsofty any attractive girl willing to get eaten out.

[aestheticsofty]

Lol ok

[scooogy]

@aestheticsofty does it sound that weird to you?

[Nahid1234]

Haha. X

[aestheticsofty]

No. Most guys like it

[scooogy]

@aestheticsofty but I prefer it over receiving oral.

[aestheticsofty]

Also normal in my opinion

[Nahid1234]

Anyway man. Stop bothering the girl

[aestheticsofty]

@Nahid1234 lol

[scooogy]

@aestheticsofty follow me back maybe?

[MayBlythe]

No its not, I have given one and will never do it again and don't feel once little bit guilty

[scooogy]

are you single?

[MayBlythe]

@scooogy Yes out of my own choice to work more on my blacksmithing shop

[scooogy]

@MayBlythe I wouldn't mind an LDR

[Cody01]

Can't have your cake and eat it too.

[JordanG95]

Not at all, if you don't want to it's your choice...

[outsidecurve]

If you don't like giving blow jobs, he's not going to stick around. Wifey types give blow jobs all day.

[Dargil]

No, but it brings up issues.

[Dargil]

Pushed send by mistake. Sex has two branches. Sport/connectedness, Intercourse, and nurturing/therapy, oral and hand play. In the old days, it seems all the was, was intercourse., leaving many women and older men unfulfilled. The bottom line is we both need both. Sometimes rollicking good sex. Sometimes one way intimate pleasure. For you, if a BJ is off the menu, some other "therapy" should replace it.

[vampireelf]

It is totally fine not to like blowjobs 😊

[cloudni9e]

Oh look it's dead fish girl...

So you just lay there and let him do all the work and you dont give blow jobs?
i guarantee he's gonna cheat on you or dump you

[kittycat119]

She downvoted you but you're right. No guy is gonna stay with a girl like that

[cloudni9e]

lol someones mad

[MissLogical]

Lol just because a girl doesn't want a penis in her mouth it doesn't mean she would just lay there during sex. And not all guys are as selfish and low as you are for putting a blow job above a relationship.

[kittycat119]

@MissLogical look at her other post. She's a dead fish

[cloudni9e]

@MissLogical www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2761134-is-it-bad-to-be-a-pillow-princess

she calls herself a pillow princess

[MissLogical]

In her replies she stated she likes to be on the bottom, and that she does react and move some, but she isn't on top.

[genericname85]

i think it is. unless they are not willing to go down on you, in that case you should maybe consider looking for someone else anyway.

[hannahbanana11]

It's your choice, it's totally fine to not wanna do that. But if you plan on not doing that to someone, don't be bitter about someone not performing oral on you... it really just depends on your desire to please the other person

[Mattbowles]

Do you like it

[hannahbanana11]

@Mattbowles Like what dude

[HamAndCheese]

Eh... I mean it isn't necessarily good.

[Prime_Sol]

Yes. It's pretty bad and an easy way to be replaced.

[zzzondarrr]

No, you are supposed to get sexual after marriage anyway...

[BenSherman]

Why beacuse of dumb book?

[zzzondarrr]

@BenSherman What book? I'm an atheist. It's because that's just in our nature, you're supposed to be intimate with one person only, if you want to bond deeply and for the rest of your life, and to have a truly happy and fulfilling life...

[bi-mike-95]

No it is personal choice and your boyfriend should be understanding of that