If he is the type of guy to leave you because you're not having sex with him, then he isn't the type of guy for you.
You should never do something that you're not comfortable with yet, and no one has the right to make you feel pressured to do so.
Regarding it hurting, the first time is likely to as least be uncomfortable for you, but it gets easier each time.
If you decide to go ahead with it, you need to speak to him and make sure he is slow and gentle. You can also chose a position like girl on top, where you can control the depth and pace yourself and it be you that's in control not him.
Sex has to be consensual otherwise it's called rape and illegal.
Hence make your decision.
Many girls here complained that their boyfriend left them after taken her virginity.
Hence giving sex is NOT the way to save a relationship.
Thus decide. If you want to lose it, then lose it happily. Otherwise say no. If he leaves, so be it. You deserves better.
PS: how to prepare to lose it is too long to write here.
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For the used part, you can't be used if you want it. Then you use him just as much as he uses you.
Are you more worried about being used or you more worried about him leaving you?
This friction point could result in the end of your relationship.
Only thing left for you to do, is tell him you don’t want sex. If he gets mad, and starts miss treating you. End the relationship
No need to do it because you're not sure about it. Take your time and get more comfortable with him.
It might hurt your first few times. Is he aware of your fears?
Well lets me say this to u as a Man who truly values Women as Roses an not just as a trophy.
This what I believe if he truly love's u as he ever said to u hoe will be kind an understanding an not rush u.
When it come's to ur very first time as it might be his also but as a Man he will make it rememberable for u to where ur head will hit them Stars in that wild blue Yonder as in heaven.
God Bless
hold it in until you are 60 lol
lol ur funny
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