I was also scared for this particular reason too! I couldn't relate more. Partially why i waited till 22 my current age to have sex also 😕but you can always use a condom to be safer and if he can't understand that he isn't worth for you to sleep with him. Wearing a condom is better than being parents in 9 months especially if you aren't ready for a baby. Try to take deep breaths okay? Take deep breaths is what i did and focus on this moment in your life, enjoy the passion and hot pleasure, thinking about it while having sex will trigger your anxiety more im telling you girl because i was in your shoes before but everything we do is a risk in life. The only way to not get pregnant is not have sex but as long as you guys are being cautious and doing it correctly you will have a very low chance of pregnancy but don't over think it! Thats my best advice coming from a 22 year old who just got in tact with her wild side and had sex for the first time and i also don't take birth control daily, i used a condom and took the morning after.
Thanks so much yeah being 21 I have just felt this way and this was calming , I asked cause recently it came to the point where we kinda drunk and I honestly am not 100% sure if he put it in he couldn’t get hard and so just that few seconds of possibility has just really spiked my anxiety even thou it’s highly unlikely and I’m a virgin so I don’t even know if that counts
No type of contraception is 100% safe, but doctors wouldn't recommend it if they didn't trust it.
My partners and I have been using condoms, pills and implants, and in my 10+ years of sexual activity, I've not managed to impregnate a single woman. So I feel very confident in the protective capabilities of these products.
And you can always do a pregnancy test if you sense that something's off in your body. And if you live in a country where abortion is allowed, you also have that option if you should be unlucky.
I don't know how else to ease your mind. Perhaps talk to a doctor or sexologist and your partner?
You could always avoid the acts that result in pregnancy. Oral and digital sex would be fine, or even mutual masturbation. And if you're particularly concerned about being part of that one percent, well, there's no reason to have only one layer of defenses; condoms are functional and available, too.
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