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Secret porn viewing?

Why does my husband deny his obvious porn watching? I mean he knows I know he looks at porn daily but any time I bring it up he denies it and gets mad at me. Also I don't know that he watches it but why not share the hobby a bit with me or why ain't he engaging in sex more often since it's a daily viewing thing? I love porn but when he denies his viewing pleasures and gets mad tries to keep it secret then his quiet porn addiction makes me feel inadequate and not good enough
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  • If you want to watch porn with him, I suggest you invite him to do it. Rather than the other way around.

    Do not ask his opinion on what porn to watch. Just pick something YOU like and either invite him to watch, or watch it alone when he is nearby.

    If you ask him what porn he likes, well, that's essentially admitting he watches porn, which he does not want to do. If he has some odd fetish that he's embarrassed about, then watching a variation of porn together will help him relax. If you happen to choose a porn that is his exact fetish, then he'll probably feel ok introducing it to you in the bedroom. However, he must not be the one to bring up the fetish, as I can tell by his actions that he is uncomfortable about it.

  • When he comes home from work, have a takeaway and some beers ordered for later and have a porno playing on the T. V.
    Be naked under a robe, and have him sit down to watch the T. v. Then cross your legs in front of him really wide, so he can see you have nothing underneath. Watch the video together and help him, by using your hands or mouth.

    I bet you he'll love it. Make sure it's a good movie that is one of his faves, or a good onethat he hasn't seen before.

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  • He must feel guilty about something about it.

    Have you told him the porn doesn't bother you but his lying and avoiding you does?

    • Yes I've expressed every aspect of my feelings on this

    • What the heck then?

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  • well, maybe its the kind of porn he sees, maybe it s a little embarrassing, inside porn there a lot of categories and he doesn't feel comfortable to share that with you than the regular porn that people are use to.
    But its also important to not let that ruin his relationship with u. :)

  • he is crazy... if i had a girl who love porn too i would want to share my hobby as much as possible

    • he may be ashamed of his habit... i used to be when i was younger, so have you made it clear that its ok with you or do you think he keeps it secret because he doesn't want you to feel you are not enough?

    • Oh yes I've tried all of this

    • i dont get it then... personally i see watching porn together and sharing masturbation can be a very intimate thing. have you tried just putting a dvd on for your Saturday night entertainment? taking the lead to show him its ok with you

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  • Have you told him what you just told us? I don't have much sympathy for him, none at all if he's fapping to porn and leaving you high and dry. Obviously he's embarrassed by it, probably due to some childhood shaming. Have you told him you don't care, but you would rather he talk to you about his fantasies? Good luck.

  • Does he know you watch porn too? say to him you want to watch it with him

  • Porn is very personal. Maybe he doesn't want to share it

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