SENSITIVE TOPIC: Would you be able to have sex like normal if your partner had been raped?

SENSITIVE TOPIC: Would you be able to have sex like normal if your partner had been raped?
Your partner is recovering from recent sexual violence, you hadn't had sex since before the assault. How would you get back into your sex lives? Would it ever be the same for you? And in all honesty, would you fear bringing up sex?
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  • That is totally up to her.

    • As determined she is to heal. She can heal fast or slow yet there is lot of different aspects and factors to healing. One can try to provide best environment and that depends on helping person what kind of resources they have available.

    • Thanks for like!

  • Maybe?

  • I think I would never do that again to her

  • I think i would support her emotionally and mentally until she was ready to make love again.
    Raping equal murder.

  • I hope your not referring to yourself when you talk about rape.

    But if my girlfriend was raped I would let get heal at her own pace. If she needs psychological help I would support her.

    I would let her initiate our future sex sessions.

    I would hope I would not put pressure on her when I have the urge for sex. That would be selfish.

    • No it's not about me thanks for the concern, also really solid opinion

    • If you want to hear a personal story DM me.

  • Obviously... it's rape not cheating...

  • Were you raped?

    • No I have not

  • I wouldn't date a girl who said she was raped. Generally because I don't believe most female who make that claim.

    If the girl ended up in the hospital because she was violently attacked... then I would believe her. Otherwise, it's almost always an excuse to avoid poor decisions on her part.

    • That's a terrible way to think about someone you supposedly love, but you have a right to your opinion.

    • I wouldn't think that way about someone I loved, I would think like it towards a girl I might date... if she said she was "raped" I would ask one question... how long were you in the hospital afterwards... if she said she was never in the hospital... she wasn't raped and I wouldn't continue dating her.

    • Ok but this is already your partner as I stated in the question

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