Serious Question: Why do men like to cum on their woman?

I'm asking this question because my boyfriend and I just became intimate.

Prior to being with him, I was celibate for 8 years and only had sex with the person I lost my virginity to (it wasn't great). And let's say before now, I wasn't that experienced.

The last time my boyfriend and I were "together," after several intense love making sessions... at the end he pulled out and came all over the back of my body. He seemed so pleased! He ended by slapping my ass and giving me a kiss.

I was really confused and didn't know if I should feel okay about this or not lol.

Can someone explain why guys do this?
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  • its "Birth control" but not 100% effective... and slapping your ass was a compliment.. just giggle or laugh

  • It’s kind of weird to pull out (and I assume he pulled his condiments off & and came on your back. At first I didn’t know he was wearing a condom and assumed he wasn’t since he pulled out but on each I read further down on the thread it doesn’t make any sense to pull out when you’re wearing a condom. I’ve been with a fake maid amount of women and in my 15 years of having sex the only times I pulled out was when I wasn’t wearing a condom and even sometimes when I was t wearing a condom the multiple girls would tell me just to cum inside them and I ( looking back on it) stupidly did. If I knew they weren’t on north control I usually pulled lit and I have to admit it doesn’t feel nearly as good as as cummimg inside but it is fun pulling out and watching our cum shoot out onto a girls body and seeing her reaction. Usually if I pull out doing missionary the girl would grab my dick immediately after pulling out and start stroking my cock super fast and jerked my dick off on herself. So I’m a little confused why your guy pulled, pulled his condom off to cum on your back? I guess he really likes that visual which most of guys do

    • Thanks for a thorough explanation! Yeah, that was why I was so confused too! He was already wearing a condom and pulled it off which, after reading all these responses, lead me to believe this is something he fantasized about doing and seeing!

  • Because its sexy to cum on a girls body

  • Good for the skin

    • Hahahaha okay 😂

    • What sort of answer were you looking for, anonymous qa

    • Men's personal opinions about why they choose to do it, if they do. I wasn't expecting health humor. Lol

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  • Why does a lion pee on his lionesses? Because they’re his and he can duh

    • 🤔 learned something new today. Touche. Never thought of it that way. Thanks for response.

  • for me it has nothing to do with degrading a women.. which no man should do... or dominance... its i see a pretty face... i want to cum on it... great tits... guess what... u guessed it i want to cum on them... what's better then cumming on a pretty face or a great set of tits?

    • That's a good point. He came on my ass and back, and he's an ass guy. So that would also explain it!

  • Girls look adorable with a load on their faces

    • Adorable lol. That's a new one! Thanks for sharing.

  • I believe it's like a marking thing or something. ... I dunno I've never done it and am a virgin all the way.

    • Thanks for sharing your thoughts. That's wonderful! Do continue to wait until you're ready. I find it extremely respectable that you are!

    • Really? It's mostly because I'm forever alone lol...

    • Yes, really! Having sex is a decision that I believe I took too lightly. I wasn't ready when I began. I'm a lone wolf myself LMAO. So, I totally get it... But, being alone isn't necessarily a bad thing. Do what you like, when you like, with who you like!

  • I don’t, I want it in her mouth or pussy

    • That's fair!

  • I’ve been with a lot of guys and trust me, this is pretty common. Porn always ends with man ejaculating somewhere on the woman’s body or face, so I think that’s why they find it so stimulating. It’s like they’re acting out what turns them on visually…. their own porn scene. There’s also a sexual ownership angle, like a marking of their territory. They don’t typically mean you any disrespect by it. My boyfriend frequently pulls out to make a mess on my belly or my boobs. The playful smack on the ass is common too.

    • Thank you so much for sharing your experience with me. This is further confirmation. I appreciate your thoughts! Thanks.

  • They see it done in porn and think it's how it should be done. I prefer it to be inside, either her V or mouth.

    • Maybe I need to start watching porn lol. This has been a popular response. Thanks for sharing your reasoning!