Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Everyday I get on this site, it's the same shit from women:
-"Why do all these guys keep sending me private messages? I'm not here for that"
-"My avatar draws too much attention and all these creepy guys keep contacting me via private message."
As a nearly 25 year old virgin male, I am living proof that if a good looking guy doesn't talk to a girl... he will never meet women or get laid.
Men talk to you, because you are good looking, and it is within our nature to make the first move... because we know you will never make the first move to talk to us guys.
Women are more driven by emotion. To get a woman interested, you have to be good looking, but also get them interested in you emotionally. For men, we are very visual creatures, if you either look nice, are very curvy, dress nice, have big boobs, are half naked... you have our attention.
It's just like in real life, I always see women complaining men are staring at them and keep trying to talk to them:
They go to the gym dressed like this:
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"Oh my god... why are all these guys talking to me and staring at me?"
You go to the clubs/bars like this:
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"Oh my god, why won't these men go away?"
You wear yoga pants out in public:
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"Oh my god... all these creepy guys keep staring at me"
And some of y'alls avatars be like this:
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WHAT THE HELL DO YOU EXPECT!
Also, ladies... an FYI... if you take your avatar image URL and paste into Google images, people can find your social media sites quite easily (sometimes). Sorry the men think you're beautiful and want to chat with you! It happens.
Seriously... STOP playing the victim?
Anonymous
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If you don't want attention, change your avatar. Guys talk to women depending on how visually attractive she is.
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What Girls & Guys Said
35 22I agree to an extent. I think if a girl goes out she shouldn't complain if a guy is trying to talk to her. Especially if she's dressed very proactively. Like, that's human nature, a guy will talk to you. But its never okay to stare at a girl's chest or ass blatantly, nonstop and shamelessly. Quit! Its rude. But yeah if the girl is half nude she's setting herself up for that. So its not that she has no responsibility for it. But its also not okay to message a girl and say "wanna see my dick." Both parties are to blame lol.
HOWEVER girls can go out dressed normally, minimal to no cleavage showing, ass covered... and still get uncomfortable creepy stares, people smacking her ass. Its fucking rude and she didn't ask for that.
And by the way I don't have a pic up and have still gotten pervy messages
With my profile pic im not showing off my ass, or my boobs, or looking seductive or anything. Yet i still get these messages. Luckily I'm thick skinned online, but its still annoying
Lol, even if no pics, girls will still get messages from Indians and Turkish users.
Racist. Lol
Really? Cos i get them msging me now and then. They love my stench.
the Indian men are the worst and irritating lot.
I understand what you are saying, but men should exercise self control. Also you'll find a lot of GAG users won't have their profile picture up and won't have a 'provocative' picture on display and will still get hammered with perverted questions and messages.
I'm a visual person, I'm a 25 year old Virgin and yet I have never felt the need nor would I ever send a user a perverted question or ask them for their measurements. Also I'll talk to any girl regardless if I find her attractive or not. I treat women like I treat men as humans, not as objects for my own gratification.
This is very very true.
However what women are really saying/doing is 'I know I'm dressing for attention but I only want attention from the 1% hottest guys. Why does every guy notice?'
The funny thing is the top 1% of guys have their pick of the crop and will be going after the classiest ones that don't dress like this but still have great bodies.
If you don't like the fish you are attracting - change the bait.
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Finally someone said it
I think if you're a girl, and you're being harassed... you need to become familiar with the block button. Simple. Done. Finito!
Truth. See that's the difference. If a guy is just trying to talk to you (Without being rude), why bitch about it? If you're being harassed, block that asshole!
you know, id honestly love to know the reason why women are downvoting my answer lol. So you think its a problem that guys are harassing you, but at the same time you don't want to block them? Creeps will always be on the internet. There are tools available for every man and woman on here to prevent messages from the unwanted. Its reeeeally not that complicated
Hear hear. I usually give them the ol' "annnnd muted." The block button and I are well acquainted, on both sides.
@CommieDearest I can always count on you to understand!
Apoligies for saying but you do have a appeal which to most guys would be very attractive, however it would be a shame for you if you lost that by coming across somewhat snobby?
For real, they do everything they can to garner attention from men then bitch when they get it.
I have to agree somehow, if dont want unwanted attention here then dont put up pictures especially provocative ones. Guys are visual when they see attractive face or body they bound to stare, girls do the same but in subtle way hahah. I kmow i like to look at gd looking face and body.
Well said. Its biology, and we can't help it. Just like how dog is programmed to sniff, we're programmed to look.
I agree with this... does that make me a misogynist? ... If you think so, you're ignorant.
Your post is very nonsensical. But I guess you're never get laid either. Lmao
Sure. Only if you care about sex XD. I care about achievement and improving my life. Sex doesn't change who you are.
Well does a guy get harassed when he dresses a certain way or is clothed a certain way? I've never once been chatted up inappropriately for the way I dress.. It's men with a total lack of respect for the opposite sex and lack of self control that have to change not a woman's fashion sense. A woman shouldn't have to fear dressing a certain way because they'll get harassed and cat called. This "boys will be boys" immature bullshit has to change.
Oh what I meant by the boys will be boys bullshit is when both men and women expect men to be pigs based on how a girl is dressed. Men have self control just like women do.. Anyway we accept a lesser behavioral standard for men than we do for women and both men AND women are to blame for it. It's time to expect a higher standard for male behavior instead of forcing women to dress a certain way because men can't keep their dicks in their pants.
i apologize for my overly sexy avatar
As soon as I saw your avatar I was like aw hell no she's gone to far! I mean seriously look at that fkn bow-tie!
i had no idea it would cause such an uproar
You destroyed my virgin MIND!
I just came.
i'm such a troublemaker
Look, I do not know what you are upset about? Everyone likes to be complimented, it is human nature. So if a girl is out looking nice and pay her a compliment, so be it. If a guy is dressed nice and a girl compliments him, so be it. Everyone wants attention of some sort whether they deny it or not.
er... OK.
I agree looks matter, but then it's subjective, we place different value on it.
And then it further depends on how confident the girl is.
and to cut to the chase... humans say things we don't mean, a lot. women who post hot pics and then complain do so because they secretly like and WANT the attention. may seem weird but it's how it goes...
Well, I am getting that too from an Australian guy here who is quite a creep.
i know who you are talking about i blocked him too
He keeps on threatening and harassing girls here. Some other girls here also told me that.
They love the attention they just say they dont.
We like guys to notice our inside not the ouside and what we wear.
I'm sure you're very good looking, Mr. Anyonomous.
I look like Justin Bieber.