Seriously what do guys consider foreplay?

I swear guys think they are doing foreplay then 5 minutes later they shove it in like you should be wet and ready to rumble lol and to be honest what’s with guys wanting anal personally it turns me off 🤨

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  • I try to spend as much time as it takes to give my partner an orgasm before "the main event." The more aroused she is, the more receptive she will be and the more likely she is to have an orgasm from intercourse, and that is my strong preference. Whether it takes my fingers, my tongue, or a vibrator, I want to watch her cum in response to what I do to her.

    You have the right to ask guys for more foreplay and you can certainly tell them exactly what you want them to do. That is your preference and you should not hesitate to express them. If a guy is not interested in doing that, he has the right to make that decision. Then you can reconsider whether you want to be with that guy any longer.

    Guys also have the right to express their preferences to you. Anal sex is appealing to many guys because it is different, it is taboo, and it is physically very arousing for a man. (And it may be a turn off to you, but I have had partners who had orgasms from anal sex, so guys are not crazy for being interested.) You, of course, have the right to say "no" and they can then decide whether to continue the relationship with you.

    There is nothing wrong with wanting to be treated with respect and fairness, but make sure that you are treating your partner the same.

  • I think a lot of guys just think that kissing and a bit of grabbing are enough for foreplay which actually is nothing at all. For me though, foreplay is the main part about sex because you can't have a good meal without the proper preparation first. The best way that I can describe foreplay is anticipation and teasing because it's really about the buildup for me. Touching all of her sensitive parts with various amounts of intensity (with different types of strokes as well), changing the tone of my voice, using my breath on weird places on her body, biting, gentle scratching, various amounts of licking, etc. Foreplay is pretty much how creative you can get with your partner in order to please them.

    • Excellent.

    • Now that’s what I’m talking bout 😊 you need to spread your wisdom 👍

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  • I consider foreplay
    -making out
    -fingering
    -playing with breasts and his penis
    -if I'm lucky, me having a clit orgasm before we start <3
    this should take at least 10-15 minutes
    Sometimes I don't want that and I just want sex, but I think it's considerate of the guy to at least try foreplay.

    What a guy thinks, legit his words.
    -It's all the build up and precursor to sex
    -touching, talking, feeling, warming up, pre-game
    He didn't have anything else to add. So, I asked how long it should last. And he said it depends how you're feeling. He said massage could last a long time (an hour max, average about 15-20)

  • I don't believe in forplay. It sounds more like hey I am going to make you want me.
    It is manipulative.
    If we talk about two lovers and not about two fakers that makes the whole difference. Both exists.
    Do you want her easy in your bed , seek an easy woman. Want more seek what want more. That is all to it and you are willing to try more then just easy and simply like being with her also while she is talking and love to see her body even you have no sex and she likes to look at him about what he is doing. If he does not like that that is a sign you better leave him if she does not like that he better leave her.

  • I hate foreplay; that's for little girls.

    I like my boyfriend to get into the act inmediatly. The pain he causes me doesn't last more than two thrusts.

    Grow up. Who said it was the man's job to get the woman ready? You take care of your own pleasure, little princess.

    • I need a girl like you in my life asap!

    • 😂😂😂😂😂😂 But what If he has a small peepee?

    • What about it? I don't think it's related to the foreplay. If you mean that if it's an inpediment for having a formal relationship with a man, not at all. For most women it isn't. For me, I would even marry a man with a micropenis without problem.

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  • One lick on each nipple. Prise your legs apart. Then whammo!

    Thank goodness I have a good guy! LOL!

    • Exactly lol I think they should have foreplay school for guys lol

    • Lol. A foreplay school with hands on instruction. 😂😂😂

    • I want to drink jessie's juices

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  • re foreplay: this is how long it takes for us. tell him to either take his time or start wanking.
    re anal: get yourself a strapon and tell him to bend over

    • I think I might try that lol

  • cuddling, making out, caresses, oral sex, etc

  • Lol. Sorry about the bad ones and glad you have a good one now. For me it would be close to one hour on each nipple! Love them boobs! And I mean especially the small ones. 😁

    • Sorry. That was aimed at @juicyjessie

    • As for answering the question, foreplay for me includes lots of touching and licking all over, and sucking on breasts. I usually try to have her have at least one orgasm before even beginning, the intercourse. And we aren’t done playing until she is done. 😁

    • LOL! Got you!

  • So because you never really gave it a true try (guessing), everyone needs to hate anal? It takes a lot of patience at first. Once you both know what your doing, most women enjoy it. And I have never met a guy that didn't like it.
    If he isn't taking his time before fucking you, get someone new or actually say something. This thing women have of complaining but never actually saying anything is fucking frustrating.

  • Well I agree 100%. It amazes me how many guys literally just want to stick it in and then get out. At least hold her down a bit, pin her arms above her head, bite her nipples gently, cup her tits... something for a while...

    • Im also amases that many guys are the one s you just described. Really? If the only thing they want to do is stick it and shove it to a lady you at least know for soem time, better hire a hooker for that purpose and dont play with athat person you know already cause I doutb with a hooker guys do foreplay.

  • I don't do foreplay, for me teasing you relentlessly is part of sex.
    Since i love making her beg its probably going to end up the opposite where instead of me putting it in to soon you beg that i do it sooner.

  • Not all guys can foreplay and not all women enjoy foreplay either. When i started dating the foreplay was barley 5 minutes. Now ! i can do it all day. Being inexperienced when it comes to intimate situation and you can always teach your partner what you like and what you hate and he teaches you the same. It's always give and take.
    For me foreplay is more important than sex, because the better and longer we do the foreplay the better sex gets for us. It starts with few texts about how it might be when we arrive home, some message, sexy talk, comfort, warmth, very nice and slow and being the man for my lady all the time.

  • While some guys are selfish I know, you may just need to "remind" them that you need a bit more of it. I think we forget sometimes because we don't need nearly as much of it before we're ready!! Totally ready! lol We get excited and want to get at it that's all. Just let him know what you need. Communication is sometimes/often lacking.

  • Amateurs.
    No respect for their partners pleasure.
    The best sex is her moaning to stop..
    (in the good way...)

  • You have a point or two
    Funny: being sucked
    Serious: warming her up until I can't hold back my lust anymore, hoping I can do it more times later, whether she cums or not... cheating is OK = vibrators, porn, planting sex thought seeds prior to "date"

    Anal seems gay to me and dirty + no vag/mouth afterwards
    however, when too much alcohol says you can't cum just once more but you really must, this orifice will do the job when no other will. Rare experiences have taught me that every so often, this can be heaven but usually... NOT + the complaints afterwards of physical discomfort

  • I rely on her to let me know when she's ready, preferably non-verbally.
    If she wants to do me with her strap-on I am up for it. Vice-versa not so much. Tried it and was not impressed. A snug fit but no tighter than she who does her Kegels or even something as simple as using crossed ankles to tighten up.

  • For me, pretty much the same as women do. Kissing, touching, the occasional nibble, etc. Anything to put off the sex part, coz that's crap :P Foreplay is awesome though. And anal is just nasty : I've seen enough porn bloopers to know to stay the hell away from there :P

  • Foreplay is whatever you need. A man that wants to please you will understand that.

  • Foreplay? You mean that moment between wanting sex and having sex?

  • Yeah, inexperienced guys get pretty antsy, don't they. Foreplay to me begins with sexy talk, which I swear gets girls hotter than anything. It sometimes takes longer than other, but it's really not that hard to tell where she's at by checking a few key indicators ;)

  • Fingering, kissing, licking, breast play, etc... Every girl I've ever been with likes to be teased a little bit differently, so I let her control the tempo of the sex.

  • if you want more fore play, then maybe you should take action... or at least ask for it and not lie there like a puppet and hope he does the thing you want xD

  • How long do you want your foreplay to be?

  • Maybe you should be more dominant to make clear when you're wet.

  • It's fun.

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