Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
It's only 4:30 min.Think about this one, men.
I watched this video a few months ago and considered asking a poll about it then, but didn't.
Today, I saw another question asked by a 22 year old female who is faking orgasms with her boyfriend because, like ~ 40% of females, she cannot orgasm through penetration/intercourse.
There are about 100 blue comments on that topic, so I know you guys care about it, and are unified, all against it, you do not want girls lying to you about this.
I feel as you do, and always have. Girls should never lie about this.
My answer on that:
"It's about 40% of women who don't orgasm through intercourse.
You tell him. I repeat, you tell him. Do not lie about this. NO man wants to be lied to about this.
Then you teach him how to make you cum (using whatever means necessary.)
It's no big deal. Doesn't mean intercourse doesn't still feel fantastic."
I fake an orgasm so that my boyfriend doesn’t know I can’t cum from just penetration. 80% of women can’t, so what do the rest of you do?
But what I'm interested in is how you feel about men lying to women, also pretending to have enjoyed sex more than they actually did.
They are both a sexual lie. They are both said to make the partner feel good, better, about their sexual skill, and about the experience in general.
In the case of the video, the topic is which communication technique used towards the blowjob-giver, ultimately results in more, AND BETTER, blowjobs (and orgasms) for men?
I don't believe in lying about sexual satisfaction. Doesn't matter which gender is lying. I think the truth should be told. Always delicately, tactfully, of course...)
What Girls & Guys Said
2 35Hahahaha, what if I don't like blowjobs and don't let her do it?
Then you haven't experienced a truly great one? Why don't you like them?
Because I don't deel anything. I've never met a girl that can make me feel anything from the BJ, so what's there to like?
Why would your dick be sensitive enough to enjoy intercourse but not to enjoy a mouth. Doesn't make physiological sense. The two main reasons some guys don't enjoy them is 1. trauma, and 2. bad technique on the girl's part. Anyway, whatever, never mind.
I think it is a little bit of both. Always remain positive…and also provide feedback. If they care how you feel…. they will want to make it better for you. And really…. I’m not sure I have ever had a “bad” blowjob….. just ones I liked better or MUCH better.
My rule of thumb is that I don't play mind games with adults. We are not teenagers anymore, it's time we buck up and have serious conversations about what we want and what we expect from each other.
Damn right. 👌
I can lie, but if I don't cum then it's awkward because it's obvious she's not that good
should girls tell guys they're good at eating out, even if they aren't?
Some don't give Bj at all.
i have never told a girl she was bad at anything in the bedroom... can't gain anything from doing that
Have good communications is key if you need to teach each other to do better
I voted A, but there are good blowjob givers and average blowjob givers in reality.
That's good to hear. So, average, and good, but no bad, eh.
Yep! In my opinion there is no such a thing as a bad blowjob unless she internally bites you hard. ;-) Thankfully that never happened to me!
I like to tell truth allways..
If I didn't like the way a girl was giving me a blowjob, I let her know. I would want the same thing if she didn't like the way I was performing oral sex on her. Talk things through with each other to what feels right and and turns you on.
Well... I hope it is not going to be taken as racist but some girls have big soft lips. And the other ones can't beat them whatever they may try. Fact.
Honesty is always best. If he or she doesn't know how to make you feel good, it's always best to teach them, but do it with kindness.
Faking orgasms is despicable.
That’s a tough one but I think she is right because they will keep doing it and get better at them anyway. I wish I could find a girl that actually likes doing them and mostly does that
All women think they give the world's best head even when they are awful. And just because one guy they had loved one particular trick or another doesn't mean all guys like that trick while they might prefer another. Thing is you NEVER tell a woman she gives bad head if you ever want her to put it in her mouth again. You might suggest a technique you like but don't criticize the one she does badly. Then react enthusiastically when she uses suggested technique and she will start using it and the old one will be abandoned or used less frequently. Now you're getting good head and she didn't get insulted and stop head altogether. Enjoy it for now-you know the difference between your job and your wife? Your job still sucks after 2 years...