The biblical purpose of sex is multifaceted. God has given sex to us as a means of glorifying Him as we fulfill its design for procreation, intimacy, comfort, and physical pleasure. It is a fulfillment of God's created order in marriage between a husband and wife.
Procreation
Gen. 1:28, "And God blessed them; and God said to them, 'Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth, and subdue it; and rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.'"
Intimacy
Song of Solomon 1:13, "My beloved is to me a pouch of myrrh which lies all night between my breasts."
Song 2:3, "Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest, so is my beloved among the young men. In his shade I took great delight and sat down, and his fruit was sweet to my taste."
Song 2:6, "Let his left hand be under my head and his right hand embrace me."
Song 4:5, "Your two breasts are like two fawns, twins of a gazelle, which feed among the lilies."
Companionship
Song 3:1, "On my bed night after night I sought him whom my soul loves..."
Physical Pleasure
Song 1:2, "May he kiss me with the kisses of his mouth! For your love is better than wine."
The sexual relation is only properly expressed in marriage between a husband and wife (1 Cor. 7:2-3). Any sexual contact between unmarried people is sinful since it violates God's design.
Sex isn't an ordinary thing or something just for pleasure. Sex is a soul tie. A soul tie is a spiritual bond that can happen In many ways.. But I'm going to talk about sex. Anytime you hook up, you're joining to that person physically, emotionally and spiritually. When you hook up with someone y'all are 1 not ✌🏾 but 👆🏾 (Mark 10:6-8) and when any of us have sexual intercourse, we have a huge outpouring of dopamine into our brains. It is released when a couple has sex, which makes them want to repeat the sexual act which then allows them to get pregnant and have babies. But for the unmarried kid it makes him want to repeat that sexual act again and again. It is the same hormone that is secreted with addiction to drugs and nicotine.
And when two people have sex, oxytocin is released, which helps bond the relationship
And when it is released during orgasm, it
begins creating an emotional bond - the more sex, the greater the bond. But if you have sex outside of marriage or you constantly have sex with different people.. That's a problem... because you're giving a piece of yourself to everyone and if you do not find a way to break that soul tie.. You're going to have a problem connecting with your soul mate.
To summerize this. Sex is a soul tie and is something God created for husband and wife. And once you hook up with someone you are one with him/her. So to keep it short. Wait till marriage guys... Do not be deceived by what society tells you. Sex is a something serious but this generation makes it seem like it's something just for pleasure and unimportant but it's far from that... It's not easy but still, Trust in God's timing and be strong 💪🏾
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