Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
As a guy in my raging - or not so raging, depending on the week - 20s, I know a few things. Here's one thing I know:
In the game of sex, we're always losing. We're always behind. We know girls have the upper hand and we're constantly trying to compensate for our lagging. But here's the worst part:
We're always losing, even after the deed is done. Thing is, as teens, we guys think the ultimate victory is obvious: Sex. If we get it, we're good to go, and it doesn't really matter what happens afterward. We figure that if we get involved in a long-term relationship, that's cool, 'cuz then we can get sex whenever we want it. No more trolling for tail; we've got what we want at home. And if it doesn't turn into anything serious, well, we got it once, so we feel confident we can get it again.
But either way, we end up behind again. What...the...hell?!
Guys who have been in long-term relationships - married men, here's your chance to share your wisdom - know full well that sex is never a foregone conclusion. Guys who are "serial daters" (I guess you girls call them "players"), regardless of their exhibited confidence level, are really only seeking a decent batting average. A player who hits .300 is a freakin' All-Star for a reason; even the best "players" in the game probably don't have that average when it comes to scoring.
So, girls, here's a plea on behalf of all sexually-inclined males everywhere: In 2016, the white flag is up and we're admitting defeat. We know you'll always have the upper hand, before and after. We know we have to play catch-up, agonize over the right thing to say and do, and regardless of whether we're free or involved, we'll always be just a tad confused.
WE ADMIT IT. And we're asking for mercy. Just a little. We know you can win blindfolded and with both hands tied behind your back, so how's about taking the occasional dive? Give us a fighting chance and we promise we'll be happy with that, m'kay?
What Girls & Guys Said
13 32Why is sex such a big deal?
Damn OP you're kind of a pussy bro.
IF YOU HAVE MONEY beautiful girls (gold diggers) will be swarming around you give them a supply but don't give them access to your gold mine or you will get empty,
This implies that a person's looks determines how they value money. I'm not being inflammatory. That just seems a bit illogical.
I'm not sure how to respond to most of this besides "okay". I'm most interested in seeing others' opinions on this take.
I think if guys are being honest, this is how they feel 99 percent of the time. It gets a little draining is all. LOL
Okay I don't understand it lol
Where are your arguments anyway?
So basically just give you a bang because it'll make you feel better.. How about no.
Have you ever had sex with someone you didn't actually want to have sex with? It's repulsive. Like fucking a corpse
I don't get it. What upper hand? And what win/lose situation?
As the 'player', you're talking out of your ass. Women have the upper hand? No. Women aren't looking for sex the same way we are. I just wanna fuck her, get my jacket and leave. The woman I left wants me to call her in 3 days and arrange a date. That's the diference. They may have the 'upper hand' when it comes to the sheer act of obtaining dick, but speaking generally here women don't want dick as much as they want a loving man they can trust. So, when it comes to getting what they want, women are actually losing out. Most guys like me just want sex, and enough encounters with my type will leave a woman sick of fuckboys. I think this is why there's this supposed imbalance.
Also, sex isn't hard to get for men either. Go to a college bar and buy a girl a drink. Repeat until sex is being had. This bullshit is bullshit.
Ok don't take it personal ok? But you're so being pathetic! :( No offense. How about you develop some pride? Some self-respect? I'm not saying that to humiliate you I'm saying that to make you look at yourself and see how awful you sound.
I don't know you, and maybe I'm completely wrong but here's what I suggest.
Seriously, stop paying attention to websites or blogs made by bitter self-entitled nice guys and to non-scientific nonsense like the "red pillers". How about you work on becoming the type of person you would have as a role model? How about you work on developing yourself in every human aspect (mental, emotional, social, physical, intellectual) so you'll stop feeling sorry for yourself? How about you travel, explore and experience the real world to see how different it is from these pity internet schemes (red pill/blue pill, "the game" etc etc).
These people live in an aquarium and they think they can lecture others about the ocean. How about you go explore the ocean?
LOL my boner is confused
Dont put so much importance on sex...
Lmao talk about yourself nerd, Doesn't work same for tall jacked athletic dudes. U mirin? Yea u do
I completely agree with you
We can stop this by not being so thirsty
That guy must be a shitty fighter if he let her kick him that high above the waist. Seriously! All he had to do was keep his hands up!
MGTOW is the only solution.
Lol but we do let guys 'win' occasionally. Babies are still being born and that means sex happens and is happening. Maybe guys can give us some mercy too, I cannot even begin to talk about the fact that men are still such assholes when it comes to screwing with a woman's feelings
Good points. So why would girls who have boyfriends stop other guys around them meeting hot girls they know?
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a24684-attention-seeking-girls-who-claim-to-be-friends-why-they-do-this
This is exactly why I date foreign girls, they dont play games, and they dont have the upper hand in dating, they are wiling to give me the upper hand which is awesome. I dont have to deal with opinionated and sometimes controlling, or even selfish Western women, and I certainly dont have to live my life at a disadvantage when dating Western women who think that they should have all the power in a relationship, its a win for me cause I dont have to deal with that crap, and its a win for the foreign girl who gets to be in a relationship with a great Western guy like myself. The only people that lose are the Western Women, and they lose a loyal, caring, compassionate guy like myself. Oh well, we can't all be winners.
What you're asking for is attraction to work differently. It's not going to happen.
Become more attractive to women, sexually.