Sex in shower for a girls first time?

Question

Some people swear by shower sex some peoole despise it. Reasons for hating it inclued different temperature preferences, it slippery, etc. The reason why I ask this is because a girls first time having sex can be pretty icky. What do you think?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No, don't do it. Especially if it is the first time for both people and neither has any experience.

My first time was in a shower, and it was really bad. Two inexperienced first timers need to be able to be relaxed and taking their time with lots of communication and verbal as well as eye contact.

Doing it in the shower means that most likely it would be standing up with the girl facing away from the guy and with the loud shower over both of you. That pretty much gets rid of all the things you need to make the first time comfortable.

Do it in a bed lol, or on the floor or a sofa if you're adventurous

PoliceLivesMatter · Accepted Answer

Don't have sex in the shower for your first time, it's NOT a good idea and will probably be awkward since it's your first and you won't enjoy it. Have sex with the windows up and use candles if you're worried about odors. Take shower together after

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

I don't see why sex in the shower would be any more 'icky' during a girl's first time than having sex in the shower after the girl has been sexually active for years.

If you simply don't like shower sex... then don't do it. It'd probably be best to have sex for the first time in bed because there are a lot more angles/positions to try in case the first one is too uncomfortable or whatever.

Gypsy_x · Accepted Answer

Heeeeell no. Water dissipitates all your natural moisture, so there is way too much friction. This will make it damn painful for your first time

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think bed or some place you could lie down would be best for your first time. It's easier to relax and it then might be more enjoyable

Plowboy · Answer

I had sex in the shower a few times it isn't so bad when the woman gets wet easy , also I have had blow jobs in the shower and I have also eat pussy in the shower, it's all good after you get used to it

truthbeknown · Answer

Absolutely not. Shower sex takes experience and sexual knowledge and a bit of skill to get it work. This not a the place for rookies.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Water will wash away your natural lubrication and penetration will be more difficult. Also, shower sex can involve some gymnastics and your first time should not be "work!"

WalterBlack · Answer

Not a good idea for the first time. You'll be concentrating so much on not slipping and falling that it will be difficult to relax. Also, being in the shower limits the possible position you and your partner can be in. That might make it difficult to find a position that is somewhat comfortable. Just put a towel or something else that can be easily washed on the bed.

medicguy · Answer

Definitely not for your first time. Maybe later but first time bed. Be completely retraced and comfy. You can always take a shower together afterwards

TadCurious · Answer

I think that's a really bad idea. The first time for most people is awkward anyway, and having your first time in the shower would just really complicate everything.

0112358 · Answer

I would guess it's a below average option for first time sex for a whole bunch of reasons.

lucidfruitshop · Answer

If fucks with your back.

ohshee18 · Answer

A shower is fun but for me I definitely want to bed for a girl's first time cuz I want to be slow seductive and passionate I want to make it all about her for a long period of time hot water only last for so long LOL

genericname85 · Answer

i don´t think shower sex is a good idea for your first try xD

Don1892 · Answer

Terrible idea. Its actually very awkward, pktentially dangerous, you need more space than 95% of showers AND you run the risk of breaking his penis with your inexperiencd. Trust me, comfy bed is best.