He may have a porn addiction. For a porn addict, watching it releases dopamine in the brain and that rush becomes more desirable than actual sex. It’s why porn can be destructive to a relationship. You’ve been replaced by porn. He needs it to become aroused and feel satisfied. There are two options here. One is to convince him to stop. If he can completely deprogram from it, he’ll eventually start using you for sexual release again. This is probably the healthiest option. The other is to incorporate porn into your sex life, which some couples do. Allow him to watch it directly before or during sex and take advantage of his state of arousal. I dated a guy who always had porn playing on his tablet when we had sex. He needed those sights and sounds to stay aroused. I never complained because the sex was good but a lot of women feel threatened by that, so that approach may not be for you.
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Because porn has gotten in the way of your relationship. He needs to get a handle on that.
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There are exaggerations in porn. that big dick and ass is not possible. some men like this kind of porn. they get addicted to it. They prefer watching porn instead of fucking their girlfriend. this is not a good thing. and she wants her boyfriend to be like that too
0 0 0 0If this happens almost all or totally all the time, he probably has porn addiction. Yes, it's real and yes, there's help if he wants one.
If it happens a few times, probably does it for variety.0 0 0 0
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0 14Are you getting enough? Then don’t worry about it.
0 0 0 0Have u asked him?
0 0 0 0Maybe he feels you are to resevered and aren't willing maybe to forfil his fanstizes or have the same sex drive
0 0 0 0I have more sex drive than he does I've tried everything
Maybe, have you just tried talking to him about it? What type of porn does he watch is it something that different to what he gets?
He has an addiction and needs professional psychological help.
0 0 0 0Porn is a fantasy, it allows you to enjoy stuff that perhaps your partner isn't into. Doesn't mean he doesn't enjoy sex with you, but perhaps there's something there he wants to try out.
0 0 0 0Try watching porn with him to see what he's into then take it from there. 💞
0 0 0 0Get things warmed up.
0 0 0 0Because he's addicted to porn and you should get rid of him.
0 0 0 0Coz of long term relation. He bored with you and dont find you attractive anymore
0 0 0 0But I am attractive
I dont think so
Him watching porn, it turns him on.
0 0 0 0I prefer porn over Sex too
0 0 0 0Some guys can get nervous during sex and lose their erection. They are more relaxed when they masturbate.
0 0 0 0Fantasy and reality are completely separate
His watching porn has NOTHING to do with his interest in you or sex with you.
Just like your natural mental fantasy (most common being forced sex by a stranger) has nothing to do with him.0 1 0 0He wants Asians and Latinas.
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