Sex on first date? why or why not?

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  • I did answer this type of question ones and I have been reported, because she was a cancel culture snow-flake who couldn't handle a strong and direct answer. I will try one more time. Sex on a first day, Yes or no? It is heavily depends on your motives and goals. For me, if all I want and all she wants is sex, we just going to grab a really quick bite and off we go until we are fully satisfied. If she is a virgin and looking for a marriage and she is my type of girl, absolutely not. If things would click, I'll be more than happy to wait months on end, ask her father's permission to marry her, marry her and only then have sex.

    • I appreciate your honest answer. I’m not one to report anything but child porn and exploitation

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  • If your goal is to have an orgasm as soon as possible, of course you should have sex on a first date. If you do that repeatedly, sex will become am enjoyable recreational activity but will lose that special feeling that it has for others who do not jump into bed so quickly.

    If your goal is to find a partner for a long term relationship, having a high body count (and the attitude that usually goes along with it) will make you a less valuable or less desirable person in the eyes of many people. When you have sex with the person who you think is The One, do you want him thinking "Am I number 81 or 82?"

Most Helpful Girls

  • I would say no, but I mostly dated men I didn't know well, and we dated to learn more about each other.

    If you know this person well and you try to get your relationship to the next level... then it depends on if you both want it...

  • Its a must so u know if u need a second date or not

    • Thanks for mho honey

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  • If you both mutually wants to have sex, then why not? There is nothing wrong with wanting to have sex on the first date if both gives mutual consent and have the lust for one and another. Just make sure that you both want it and it's not one sided trying to convince the other.

    • Exactly

  • so far, I've never done it that way

  • not a dating material let alone a wife, she is easy and quick to open her legs, she is not trustworthy.

  • Well it depends what each person are looking. Speaking from myself, even if I wanted a casual encounter I would try to know more from the person.

  • No. The best way to have no second date.

    • lol only if you sucked at it on first date

  • It's okay, but not expected, to have sex on a first date... if they click and both want to have sex. It's also okay to wait to have sex.

  • My answer is: ''why not''.

    A 'first date' is kind of a test. It fails, or won't.

    And adding sex to it will not really make a difference. To me, at least.

    A 'relationship' includes sexuality - so I find nothing wrong with it to try it out early.

    If I'd only find out after numerous 'dates' that the girl sucks in this respect, or is incompatible, then we both would have wasted time.

  • First date is too soon.

  • If the time feels right, why not?

  • No, because thats stupid.

  • If you're vibing well, why not?

  • If the chemistry is and the feelings are there and it just works then I'd say sure.

    I had that happen once. We met online and by the time we finally met the tension was unbearable so we went at it right away.

  • Doesn't matter to me honestly.. I guess it depends on what I would be looking for atm.. But I don't usually look for it on the first date..

  • No, as much as I definitely like having sex with girls I date, I never would try on the first date. I want to get to know her good first. Also, if she will have sex with me on the first date, how many other guys has she did that with? Not after a girl that will hook up with any guy that will get a hard on in front of her.

  • i had sex with my now boyfriend on our first date

  • I have had sex on the first date, but only because the chemistry was amazing. Great conversation ( like no awkward moments). The banter is amazing. and you just don't want the night to end. Every time I had sex on the first date though... I ended up dating them for a lengthy period of time.

  • isn't having sex a date

    • It could be lol

  • It is ok by me , but I don;t mind waiting either

  • I won't even kiss on a first date.

  • Of course i would

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