Sex On The First Date

Don’t do it, it’s wrong!

Save yourself until marriage!

NO way. They want you for sex only

Sex On The First Date


You and your date have the perfect day with one another. There is a healthy dosage of company, fun, romance, you name it. Your date couldn’t possibly get any better. To wrap things up after an amazing day with your partner, surely you’d think of ending the day with a nice round of passionate, romantic sex. There’s just one problem though — it was the first date.. Gasp!* Nope, sorry I’ll see ya tomorrow. Maybe well have sex in a few months, even though sex could’ve been the marking of the end of a perfect date. If you got lucky with more “perfect dates”, perhaps sex could happen in a few weeks.


Now here's my view.. there are bigger worries than whether or not he will lead you on, if you two were to have sex. If you are holding back on something you want because you are worried about someone leading you on, don't. Your self respect, your virginity, and your feelings do matter, however the problem is that you are holding back on something you want over a fear, when you could be topping of the best days of your life with the person you spend it with by releasing the passionate feelings with sex, even it's on the first date. Your first time having sex is still meaningful, I know and you don't want to waste it on someone trivial. Yet, you would not be interested in any idea of sex on a date, unless you felt as though you had genuinely enjoyed yourself, and felt the need for some more private time alone.

That being said men, if a woman decides to have sex with you on the first date, she means business about her feelings for you, and she's serious. She feels as though you two spark with one another, and that's why she's to do it. Due to women mainly being emotional, she's not going to desire sex with you unless she feels a strong enough connection with you, and when she does, it's time to get serious. Do not take her feelings for granted. She means well when she says she wants to hold off until marriage, or when she feels ready for it. It's all because of the satisfaction she'd feel as soon as she's had sex with the guy she felt connected to.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Yeah, I don't see anything wrong with it. You could be friends with someone for ages and know them really well while having good chemistry and have sex on the first date.

    If you guys both have great chemistry and you could see a serious relationship/future with her, then sex more than likely isn't going to ruin it (though how you both handle it after is important too). If you're unsure and are mostly attracted to looks over personality, then it won't exactly help get you into a serious relationship with that person on its own.

    • I think women probably would follow this situation more, if they knew they weren't going to be judged!

Most Helpful Girl

  • I find it that there can't really be a connection on the first date, so it will be bad having sex then.

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  • if you are younger I would say no-but if older I would say it is ok

  • Well i think its really a bad idea to do this in the first date