Sex on the First Date?

Thoughts on sex on the first date? I sometimes do it but other times ill wait till the 2nd or 3rd. Whats your thoughts, or do you have a rule about it?
Sex on the First Date?
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  • Betty the Gang Leader would like to share her opinion from a female perspective using her Gang Members as examples!

    Margaret
    With such a name, she lives up to the idyllic imagery in one's mind when you think/say her name.

    She is old but not that old. She's upfront when it comes to sex and lays out her plan on the very 1st date!

    Every man she dates and there have been many, many men she has dated, all get told "You can have sex with me on the 56th date, each date being once... every leap year!"

    Mildred
    Just the name makes you think 'oh dreary' which she is. Truth to be told that's how she feels, dreary and tired especially after watching the shenanigans Margaret gets upto!

    She is a nonpracticing Nun in that she doesn't have sex as it's too much effort especially after hearing all the stories Margaret shares!

    She would join a convent but she loves the gangster lifestyle too much!

    Mildew
    Poor old girl. Just the thought of sex and especially after watching, listening to the shenanigans and stories of fellow Margaret, she drips like a leaking faucet.

    Her choice of 'lube' is Cilit Bang Black Mould Remover because as you can imagine, with such an unfortuate name it's not going to be very pleasant... down there.

    Her choice of men are limited as a result as not all want the prerequisite task of cleaning her before they play!

    Betty says every woman is different, see?

    Like Betty, I too am a Gang Leader of Me, Myself & I.

    My personal opinion is pure fact. It has and always will be... The first date ;-) Hehe!

    • Thank you for Superb Opinion :-)

Most Helpful Guy

  • If you're only looking for a casual sex relationship, then it doesn't matter, but if you're hoping for a "real" romantic relationship with the guy (or, at least, if you haven't absolutely ruled out the possibility that you'd ever want that with him), then having sex on the first date is working against your own best interests.

    A guy is probably going to accept the sex, but he's also going to permanently downgrade you from "(potential) girlfriend material" to "good for casual sex only", and it's unlikely that he'll ever consider a serious relationship with you. Why? Because most guys only consider real relationships with women who show that they have boundaries, and who can and will hold off even though they'd love to go for it, because if she can't do that, then she can't be trusted to remain faithful in the relationship. As soon as a guy finds out that she lacks boundaries, she is forever in the "casual sex only" category.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Unless you are careful about safe sex and birth control, I would avoid sex right away. It's somewhat unsafe when you really don't have a clue about who the other person is, especially if you're a woman dealing with men.
    But, you look like you're advertising with that picture you're posting, so maybe that's all you want.
    Be cautious, though. Even a third date isn't going to tell you much about a person's sanity or stability or STDs.

  • Sex is way better when there is a build up and lots of flirting. A man that is good with words is great at that... to me, it's exhilarating and I smile all day about it. Having sex right away is dull.

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    Sex on the First Date?Sex on the First Date?
  • Depends on the person I'm with, but in general, sure, why not? Just be responsible.

  • sex is for your - honeymoon - ! thanks

  • I say its not a good thing to happen because then you don't really have a real relationship. Your relationship is based off of sex. But hey you do w. e you want.

  • The only rule I have is if it happens we would both love it I like a girl who will do it because she wants to and she is her own leaders, and if that's what she wants then that's what she gets wait I thought this was about your bathing suit it's hot you hot I like both lol

  • I never had a rule. When I was a single guy I always wanted sex as soon as possible. I think it is different for everyone. If the first date is what both want then go for it!

  • I don´t think it´s a good time because being deeply intimate like having sex should be a bonding and precious moment of two people in my view. If you start with this, there´s no aim in the possible relationship. if I see a woman too early naked, I find hard to take her serious enough to see her as a possible girlfriend. That´s caused by a problem in my youth because in the time of 16-22 I was addicted to porn on a strong basis. Because I watched more than the average amount of porn a guy watches my brain adapted to this and I find it hard to take a woman serious if I see her naked before I know her personally. Don´t get me wrong I don´t want to rape but I can´t stop imagine of her being naked. It sounds weirder than actually is.

  • No fast and set rule. If it feels right it happens organically

  • Yes plesse

  • no rules

  • If I like a guy, then I don't see this as a problem. This society imposes on us the standards of relationships between guys and girls.

  • I have before. If we're both comfortable, there's nothing wrong with it. In fact, it's a great ice breaker!

  • I usually know before he picks me up if I'm going to fuck or not

  • Well lollipops and rear play is fine too.

  • If its a good date sure

  • Just depends on the chemistry I have with her and how good the night is going , sometimes we
    Meet someone that finds us amazing like we find them and we hit it off and end the night fucking each other’s brains out so there really isn’t a time limit It just goes off of how comfortable you feel with each other

  • Go Fuck him

  • What's your body count around Jade?

  • Well, I did have sex with my girlfriend before we started dating and I only ever date now for sex, so while I'm not opposed to it, actually prefer it, I think it's fine when someone doesn't wanna jump straight on my dick.
    If they're honest about what they want, anything really goes for me. If they honestly tell me they want to hop on as soon as I walk in the door, I'll be ready for that. If they honestly tell me they might just wanna talk, maybe kiss and touch a little bit first, I'm fine with that. Just don't like when they say they're gonna have me balls deep in their throat 2 minutes in and then are too shy and nervous to even be touched on their neck.

  • If he touches me, he is dead meat. 😁

    • Even if he would try to kiss you?

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