SEX on the first date, what is your opinion? a couple of reasons why it might not be a bad thing, or that big of a deal?

[YvanKarma]

Waiting to have sex until marriage is a religious thing. Or some would call you a slut/fuckboy or not having morals. If you're a person that still practices this tradition, where you don't have sex until marriage, then more power to you lol 👍

Here is why sex on the first date isn't such a bad thing, or big deal, unless you do it willy-nilly with just any random, especially without protection.

1. You go on a date with someone and BOTH of you feel like having sex afterwards, what's the problem? it's a still a date nonetheless

2. While there are many women/girls out there that don't care about your pee pee size, at least, it's what some always claim but later turns out not to be the case, having sex on the first date or 2, 3 or whatever, will help you by early knowing he has a small pee pee that wouldn't quite satisfy you, thus saving yourself for later disappointment 🙄

3. relates to 2. This might also saver yourself from later disappointment by early knowing if he or she is good in bed. Though this one is debatable, because for many, you'd have to get close and comfortable enough to actually form a better connection/relationship with the possibility of having better sex later on. MANY cases of cheating is due to 👉LACK OF SEX, or TERRIBLE SEX 👈 so they seek it somewhere else. P. S. just break up, don't go cheating🙄

4. Question i saw on Quora. I wait to have sex without marriage & found out that my wife has a 🍆. Should I divorce?😂 nani!!. I laughed tbh. Trans women who don't tell you from the start that they are in fact trans, have a🍆 ,.. yeah, might saver you the disappointment. Though i still don't understand how SOME dudes can't tell the difference. Like, i could easily tell when one is a trans. Regardless of how perfect of a surgery you have had that truly makes you look like a woman that you wouldn't really be able to tell, well, i would 😅

There are other things i can point out but these are the most common ones.

[Avicenna]

I did this a few times in my 20s, but wouldn't do it today unless she really came on to me. I'm just not on a hurry and I don't want a woman to try to lock me down by having sex that quickly.

[Avicenna]

Thanks for the MHO

[whitehide]

It's only as big a deal as people make it to be. I personally wouldn't mind having sex on the first date, though

[zaharaa]

I usually tend to have sex on the first date and dont see a problem with it

[YvanKarma]

Awesome. Society has such a bad look on it, i don;t understand why. As i said, if both of you want it, and make it part of the date, i don't see what the issue is lol.

[zaharaa]

exactly 🤷‍♀️

[BlondeGoneWild]

I almost always have sex on the first date

[YvanKarma]

I can see why you have that @ name lol

[truthbeknown]

Sex on the first date can show good connection and good chemistry between two people and therefore not a bad thing.

[OlderAndWiser]

1. It's still a date. Yes, it's a first date, and if she will have sex with me on a first date, then she has probably done on many, many other first dates. I don't want to be #94 on an ever expanding list of my partner's conquests. Call it whatever you want but many others will call it "slut behavior."

2. "Pee pee size?" You lost all respect when you started talking like a 5 year old child. Even if you have a 9" probe, you are going to be laughed out of bed by most women when you start talking about your pee pee.

3a. Developing a sexual relationship can wait until you have gotten familiar with your partner and you are ready for a monogamous relationship. This is something which will develop over time and having sex on the first date is not likely to advance the cause of having an intimate sharing relationship.

3b. "MANY cases of cheating is due to LACK OF SEX, or TERRIBLE SEX" What a prehistoric notion! Cheating is caused by people who do not feel any need to honor their vows. If someone is not a good sexual partner, then you can work with them to develop their sexual behaviors. If that doesn't work, you can leave the relationship and THEN find a new partner. Cheating is not required!

4. Spend some time with a person without sex and you will know whether they are transgender. This is going to be an extremely low probability event and the possibility should not guide how you approach first dates in general.

[Lliam]

The downside is that sex on the very first date could be an indication that the person is a player and will fuck anything. It might indicate that they have fucked lots and lots of people. And that's perfectly fine if that's what you're looking for. But if you are hoping to find a partner it might be a red flag. I mean, one date isn't enough time to get to know much at all about a person. So how would they know if they like you enough to fuck you?

On the other hand, if the two people really hit it off and, let's say they get really turned on while kissing at the end of the evening, then going with the passion isn't a bad thing. It might not mean that either person is a slut. It could mean genuine attraction.

The closest I ever came to that was when, after a second date, a woman invited me into her rented house, undressed me in the most tender, sexy way, and then did the most amazing things. After that, we fucked like crazed monkeys all night and the next morning. We wound up living together for over a year and loved each other very much. She was a "good girl"; the sweetest woman in the world; hard working and outwardly fairly modest. She was a gorgeous sexual super star who couldn't get enough freaky sex, but was 100% monogamous. Even though she was horny as hell, she wasn't promiscuous in the sense of having sex with lots of guys. She was looking for a relationship.

[Kurαȷ]

The problem is that *I* don't have sex on the first date, or the second or the third... or the twentieth, and I simply want a partner who thinks the same way.

That's all there is to it, really.

[dwiller943]

If others do it, that's fine.
But it's not my thing.

[hellacray]

Ok these are my points as to why it's a bad idea.

You don't know if the person has any kind of STD.

You don't know if the girl has a boyfriend or husband. You really want to risk something like that?

You don't know her intentions. I've seen stories where the girl robbed the guy while he was still asleep.

Basically you don't know enough. I mean you might see her as a one night stand and she might see you as a potential daddy to her children or vice versa.

[RebeccaSJ]

I did that one time. I married the guy.

[seniorghostman]

Have had before and will have again if the situation arises. Been single close to a year and a half and prefer to be in relationships but sometimes you just gotta lend your services or get it where you can.

[abc--123]

I'm up for it

[Anonymous]

I did one time went out with someone I liked