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Sex only once a day?

My boyfriend and I have sex often. He has this problem though where he can't do it more than once a day. I'm not sure if that's normal for guys any input?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It's perfectly normal in general for a man to only be able to cum once a day or so and once he cums to not really be able to get aroused very much. Case in point my husband needs to cum every day, but can't cum more often than that either. He's normal, but he's my age too. From what I've heard, I'd think most 18-24 year old's might be able to cum more often than that or at least be able to get hard and satisfy your needs more often than that. But I wouldn't go so far as to generalize to the point where I'd be certain about it. I suppose every man is different and you get whatever you get? This is definitely one where HONEST input from 18-24 guys is needed!

  • Men have something called a "refractory period". It's basically the recovery time after a man orgasms, during which, he's unable to achieve or maintain an erection/reach orgasm. The refractory period varies from man to man, ranging from a few minutes, to hours, and in some cases, even days.

  • Some guys can do it more than once, but is it because he can't have sex more than once or he's just not as horny?

    • He can't get hard at all after we have had sex in that day. If we have sex in the morning he cannot get hard again for the rest of the day but if we have sex at night sleep and then have sex in the morning it's fine he can get hard. So even though the time between is the same it all about the day. I think it may be a mental thing

Most Helpful Guys

  • there's a number of reasons why
    Is he out of shape?

    Does he have a heart condition? (now might be a good time to find out)

    No offense but does he use drugs?

    People dont realize this but your diet can have a + or - effect on sex ability does he eat healthy?

    Does he smoke?

    Does he drink a lot of soda?

    there's many factors as to why he can or can't

    • He's very fit, he's a fireman so he is active... He is turning 30 years old his diet isn't great... He eats a lot of foods containing preservatives and message. He's not on drugs, he is on medication though.

    • Could be the diet or the medication but he's also turning 30 so his testosterone levels will start to drop so that could also be a factor

  • At your age, twice every day would be more normal, if there is an opportunity.
    Even at twice your age, a lot of men would be up for twice a day.

    Get him some supplements, like zinc, vitamin E and magnesium..

    • Well there's an age difference... he's 30 I'm 22

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • It's possible to be able to regain the ability for his body to be reproductively active only after like a day if you have sex too often. The testicles can only produce so much and store so much.

  • It's pretty normal.

  • All guys differ in there refractory period. It is true also that as you get older it gets longer...

    • He's 30

    • Yeah I think this is completely normal!!

  • only? sex once per day is 2 much basically...

    • We don't do it everyday. He just can't do it more than once in a day

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