Sex phobia of her?

[User223]

Unable to bring myself to have any type of sexual relationship with wife recently because of her past sexual partners, I had read an article about women retaining dna from Everyman they’ve been with, and I don’t want another mans dna on me. Now I’ve never participated in oral, giving or receiving, and never had unprotected sex with anyone, including my wife, always been a germaphobe. My question is do all females want to give and receive oral? I find it rather disgusting myself, if she’s willing to do that to me , then I’m sure she’s had someone else’s in her mouth before. I just don’t see how we can continue as a couple of she’s done that, I feel like people would make fun of me for being with such a person

[SueShe]

Oral sex is indeed something disgusting, vile, stinky and potentially harmful to your health.

You are certainly not gaining anything by refraining from this kind of sexual perversion. It is not a natural sexual act but people believe it is since the porn industry makes them believe it. Since humans are being very gullible, they do indeed believe that it is something that belongs in a sexual relation.

They succumb to social pressure to do what is shown on those clips, although they are fully aware that it can be detrimental to their health. People need to fit in a social frame and a great number of people, mostly girls, are being coerced into that kind of deviance.

Be the wise one and don't give in to social pressure.

[Lowiu]

So to first calm you down no we dont keep dna of every man sperm is broken down in the vagina and uterus in the span of a few days
Second its pretty normal in many societies to have had sexual partners before you marry so your wife is not different than most people
Third your dislike of oral is something I dont share but I can understand talk to your wife about that especially if its due to deficient personal hygiene

[User223]

No, nothing to do with hygiene at all.

[Lowiu]

So youd dislike it even if she is squeaky clean down there?

[User223]

Yes ! I can’t and wouldn’t even think of doing that. To me it would be the same as sleeping with whomever she slept with before

[Lowiu]

You said you also dont like to recieve oral why that?

[User223]

Never could do it. Because I’m guessing if she’s willing to do that to me then she’s done that to others as well. My genitalia isn’t going anywhere near where another man has been. I see that as being dirty.

[Lowiu]

If you have sex with a condom you could also recieve oral with a condom if that would make it easier for you

[User223]

No Don’t do oral , period !

[DonkeyDan]

People need to stop believing everything they read.
Nobody cares what your partner's past is like, and why should you care anyway, you are the one she is with now. You need to find a way to loosen up and enjoy the pleasures in life.
The fact that you are a germaphobe isn't in itself a problem but when it is causing a problem where you actually considering leaving your wife because of its effect then it's time to get some therapy to deal with it.

[Bronni2134]

Grow up. Wow

[humanearth]

Really dude, thats stupid. Go fuck your wife

[User223]

Seems all men think differently than I do

[EnglishEuropean]

No one is going to make fun of you because they are married to sluts of their own.

[Anonymous]

You need therapy