Sex question: What is the difference here?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I are in our early 20s. He says that he always cums and I always see it drip back out of me. Sometimes his load is smaller and more watery than other times but I've heard this is normal. Well, my question is that sometimes after he cums inside me, he remains hard for a while after sex but doesn't want to do another round that soon after sex. And most of the time after he cums inside me, his penis just gets soft again in a minute. What is the difference here? Does it mean he is more satisfied when his penis goes down in a minute after sex or if he stays hard longer than usual after sex, could that mean he was more satisfied by the sex that time?

[Anonymous]

A penis kind of does it's own thing. Staying hard for a while is common, and so is getting soft soon after cumming. It can somewhat depend on how intense the sex was, but also on how he is feeling on any given day, and how rested his body is, etc. When he cums in you, and stays hard for a while, he still doesn't want to start thrusting right away, as it takes a little time for a dick to recharge. Also, it can get uncomfortable to keep thrusting after cumming.

[Asker]

When the sex is intense, how long does it take to go back down?

[Opinion Owner]

It depends, but it can take a while. If the sex was intense, a dick can stay in somewhat hard for a while. it won't stay at the same rock hard state after cumming, but still can be much larger than when flaccid. It's a nice feeling to be in her like that. However, what goes up, does come down. And it's also common for a dick to get a lot smaller fairly quickly. So much depends on how recently he had sex before this time, how tired he is, or isn't, how relaxed he is afterwards, and if she is doing anything to help keep him larger.

[Asker]

What if he stayed rock hard after sex for a couple minutes? Then it went down a little but still stayed pretty hard? Could that mean he didn't cum? And what does it mean when a guy goes soft after sex immediately? Does that mean the sex wasn't very intense?

[boggboss]

Him staying hard has nothing to do with sexual satisfaction but to do with him just sometimes being able to stay hard how much he masterbaits will also be a factor

[Asker]

What if he is able to get hard again shortly after the first round but doesn't want a second round? Someone told me that means he could be unsatisfied by the first round?

[boggboss]

That person is a idiot that said that if he was not satisfied he would want to go again

[Asker]

Sometimes he fucks me or asks me to blow him a couple hours after sex and he cums again. If wants it again a couple hours later, could that mean his orgasm was weak during first round or something?

[boggboss]

What is a weak orgasm sorry I think your pulling shit out off nowhere

[Asker]

Is he not satisfied if he wants sex or a blowtorch a couple hours or an hour after sex?

[boggboss]

Again you are making shit up because u are insecure it just means he got horny again has noting to do with him not satisfied the first time

[Asker]

I didn't mean to type blowtorch, I meant blowjob and my phone autocorrected. Sorry.

[boggboss]

Thats no problem I knew what u meant just stop overthinking hun and enjoy the situation

[Chilclimber]

On my personal experience, after i cum inside my girlfriend and remains hard, its usually couse we haven't had sex for about a whole week or more. Though we kind of satisfied, we cuddle, kiss touch eachother and realizes am still hard and start for a second round using it as lube.
Nothing to do with satisfaction!

[ohshee]

Okay take your same question right there and then ask yourself are you satisfied on each one of those scenarios and that should give you your answer

[vald9inches]

That happens too sometimes to my big guy usually when i am super horny

[jasco]

MM yea but some guys simply don't feel like doing another round, and from time to time we may have not saved up as much

[SamFromFL]

@billiegirl it’s because some times he masturbates