SEX RECORDINGS of ex girlfriends- I had 2 super kinky ex’s where we shot some sex videos. My current girlfriend wants me to delete them. Do I have to?

[Anonymous]

Basically I’ll never show them to a single person as I had promised the ex’s. I’ll just put them on an encrypted, password protected hard drive and save them for when I’m an old man to have some great memories. Even i get married I’d like to save them. Am I wrong for wanting to keep them? Can I keep them?

[SecretsofKB]

Honestly, if I found some of my partner's old sex tapes and then learned that they were intentionally keeping them even though they are with me, I would want them to delete them. And I would probably be very, very pissed off, at the very least, if they didn't want to delete them or tried to keep them. That is a thing I'm willing to break up over.

So yeah, you should delete them. It is kind of disrespectful to all involved that you still have them.

[Asker]

So if your current boyfriend wanted you to shred and delete all your pictures with your prom date you’d be ok with that? I mean, it’s memories you had with another guy, right? The reality is when I’m 80 years old and can’t do much of anything it would be nice to look back at my crazy memories.

[Anonymous]

If you're in a current relationship, delete any nudes from your ex. If you are single, is better to keep a few (3 pics/vids) she have send. Never record (for occasional memories).

I have a collection of nudes from women's I've met online. That's the collection I'm gonna enjoy till the day I die, or till the day I move out. Also a few pics from my ex.

[DonkeyDan]

It's disrespectful to keep a digital copy of it, memories are fine but you store them in your brain, not on your phone.

[jeremy_09]

No because you won't be with this girl someday and you'll want your memories. Maybe for your wife one day.

[Anonymous]

Delete then but keep hidden copies and never mention then to anyone.

[Opinion Owner]

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