Sex Twice a week? WOW?

[Anonymous]

My husband only wants to have sex twice a week. Is this healthy? Or is he not into me?

[Reichmann75]

Both. He is not into you, and this is healthy. As a relationship goes on, a man loses sexual interest in a woman. This is unavoidable. It doesn't mean the dude doesn't love you or anything. It just means that he's had enough sex with you and wants to slow it down now.

Most of us cheat on our wives. I'm not apologizing for it or anything. I think it's super normal. A married guy loves his wife who's the mother of his children. He won't hurt her by bragging about having affairs or anything. He'll just find amusement somewhere else when he needs to conquer again. When it's done, he comes back home and the happy family life goes on.

[NewYorkCity]

It depends on so many thing, If you were married for 10+ years, it is perfectly normal, if you just got married yee that might be a problem. Newly weds, especially men (Obviously) are like wild horny uncontrollable beasts for the first couple years, eventually it Plateaus, but it never goes down to 0, unless of course there are serious problems in your marriage.

[RoseySaraah]

How long have you been married and what is the normal sex drive?

Really Hun 2 times a week is more then most but we have it 3... We want more but life has us so busy and stressed!

He could be not into you any more what has you guessing that?

[Asker]

I just thought men have high sex drive. We’ve been married for 9 months.

[RoseySaraah]

Often they do 8 months ! So would want more sex still! Like how often do you want it? Will he be able to keep you happy? My first ex was so boring 1 like every other week needed a change so I went lesbian while married.

[Asker]

Wow. I want it three times a week and two times a day

[RoseySaraah]

Would so love that! Being in bed naked my legs wrapped around my lover! Teasing them what perfect toys I have to play with! Have any toys or does your man not want them? Mine loves sharing with my toys!

[Asker]

No we don’t do any toys or anything. Just plain

[RoseySaraah]

Try some I so suggest a sucker rose! Shoot me a follow I'm happy to talk married sex any time. You need all that you need don't get less just cause he does not want it

[Asker]

But I won’t like toys. I want the real thing.

[Asker]

And I will

[RoseySaraah]

So agree and I only get toys that add to it. My man will never be replaced!

[RoseySaraah]

Need that love inside me I get a little hormonal when I don't get enough

[Asker]

Right. I turned into a whole other person lol

[RoseySaraah]

My friends one time noticed I was so embarrassed

[Woodchuck411]

Maybe he doesn't have a high sex drive or maybe he doesn't want to overdo it and lose the pleasure. Has he always been like that

[Asker]

Not in his past but he says he doesn’t want to over do it. I took that to be be excuse to avoid me or something.

[Woodchuck411]

Have you ever hinted to him that you wanted more than twice

[Asker]

Yes. I even harassed him

[boggboss]

Has noting to do with health or his attraction towards u if that's his sex drive currently

[Bricealan]

Well, he must be 'into you" with his penis twice a week or with his tongue? In your age range, it depends, I would want it more, but know couples that must not do it that much, since I have fucked their wives or girlfriend when the husband or SO wasn't doing it.

Maybe he jacks off?

[Bricealan]

Thanks for the "like"

[ProbablyClueless]

Could be healthy/normal for him. I would want to have more, but my libido is higher than his, I guess.

[Ironic_Method]

Everyone has different sex drives. Twice a week seems average in reality. There's many people who masturbate twice a day that think they have a high sex drive because of that, but reality is a bit different.

I have a high sex drive which is why I choose partners that also have high sex drives as sexual compatibility is important to me.

[Alex-Snow]

I guess people have different sex drives. I would want it at least daily. How old is he? Why do you think he only wants it 2 times a week... is he jerking off in between?

[Asker]

He’s 25 and occasionally he jerks but other than that just two times a week

[Alex-Snow]

Does that work for you or do you want more?

[Asker]

I want more at 3x a week and twice a day

[Alex-Snow]

That amount sounds like fun with a a lot of great orgasms. Do you have any sex toys to use in between sex with him?

[Asker]

No I don’t like toys lol