Sex without a condom?

My boyfriend and I have decided next week we're going to try having sex without a condom. I'm on the pill so I won't get pregnant and neither of us have ever had sex without a condom before so we are both STD free. How exactly do I get the cum out once he finishes inside me? I've never done anything like this before so I'm lost and a little nervous. Any advice is appreciated.
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  • Keep some tissue or small towel by the bed. Use it until you can reach the bathroom. Toilet or shower is a good place to let it fall out. Pushing can speed up the process.

    FYI, don't count 100% on not getting pregnant just because you're on the pill. Many many people have ended up with babies that way.

  • The cum isn't going to come out of another slot so you can dispose of it. Most of it stays in you and other times it would slowly drip down your leg.

    Use some toilet paper to wipe yourself, then dispose of it. Or just simple go to the toilet.

    • Thank you for MH

  • So even though you've never had sex without a condom, some stds are skin to skin not fluid transmitted... Both if you should be medically checked out before you decide to remove the condom.

    Ps the cum will drain out of you throught the day.

  • once he cums in you, you can't get it out so think really hard if that is what you want to do or not

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  • It'll drip out on its own or absorb into your body. Just take a shower when you're done and you'll be fine. Of course, if this is your first time going bare, you may as well wait until you're done with a few rounds since I can't imagine this will be a "one load" sex session! Have FUN!

    • So how was it? :P

    • We tried it for the first time this morning and I can say, without a doubt, it was the best sex I've ever had in my life lol.

    • Hahaha! NICE! Nothing quite like the feeling of going bare, huh? How many rounds did you go?

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  • Like others have said... the pill is not 100% protection. Hence why my wife and I have had two of our kids while she was on the pill. Not applying to us, but some medications (like some antibiotics) can reduce the pills effectiveness. At least have him pull out.

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  • you dont

  • Some cum will dribble out on its own, some stays in and goes on it's way to try to fertilize an egg. You can sorta squeeze your muscles and push some out, but not all of it. I recommend him pulling out to cum unless you are really really it inside you.

  • Go to the bathroom. You should pee after sex anyway, and while there some will fall out due to gravity. Some will stay in. After a short stay there, just go on about your normal business.

  • If you're on the pill, you PROBABLY will not get pregnant.

  • You don't need to get it out. Though some will come out on its own.

  • Stand up or soak your self in bath

  • It will drop out

  • Ok let's debunk this myth here... stds can be transmitted without sex. But in another light usually sitting on the toilet helps get the speed out but it won't be all of it... just let gravity do its job.

  • yeah... the pill isn't 100% effective, just FYI.

  • It will come out naturally. You dont have to do anything.

  • Oh my god...

  • 1. The pill is only about 99. x% effective. If that's enough, your decision.
    2. Not having had unprotected sex doesn't mean that you're clean. Get both tested first
    3. It will slowly come out by itself

  • You don't get the cum out...

  • Remember you can get pregnant on the pill, not a high chance but still a small chance

  • Wow sounds very excited. He will cum inside of you. To this beautiful lady. Don't worry , enjoy your time.

  • You don't. You just hope your pill works