Sexual attracted to someone double your age?

I’m nearly thirty and I recently moved.
there is this new neighbour who is around 60 years old, and very good looking for her age.
When she see’s me, she always waves or has a nice chat.

Is it weird that i feel sexually attracted to her?
And would do you think she would feel the same sexual attraction?

We both are already a long time single..
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  • If I was attracted to someone double my age, she would be 132 years old!

    Do I find myself attracted to ladies half my age? Yes, of course. Those women don't lose their appeal as a man gets older. However, it is JUST physical attraction and I am not an old fool so I do not chase women who are half my age. My last three relations were with women who were me 60/her 63, me 63/her 57, and now me 65/her 57.

    If this woman is not looking for a serious relationship, and if you also are not looking for a LTR partner, then she may be open to a casual fling. It would certainly be a boost to her ego. As for you. . . I can advise that older women can be very enthusiastic and uninhibited lovers and you may be quite happy with her as a partner between the sheets.

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  • Well, you're both single adults, so there is nothing to be ashamed of for being attracted to her. There is no way for any of us to know if she is also attracted to you, but what you first you need to decide is what you'd want with her. Just sex or more?

    • Well to be honest, i feel sexually attracted to her as a friend, not for a relationship. so just friends with benefits We have had some chats, and it's fun, but nothing extra happend.

    • You need to have more conversations with her and I'd suggest strongly complimenting her looks. That will give her a hint that you're interested in having sex with her.

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  • Not weird at all. If I were you, I wouldn't make a big deal about the age thing. You'll just make her feel weird.

    Treat her like anyone else you're interested in

    • UPDATE PLEEEAASE hon! I'm a little invested in this now

  • I don't think it's weird but don't you prefer someone closer to your age? If you really do like her you can get to know her more and even ask her out

    • Normally i like girls of my own age. The first couple of times we chatted, i didn't have this feeling But after a couple of times, this feeling started to came that i want to go to bed with her..

    • okay

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  • No, it is not weird. This is completely subjective to one's own taste or preference. If you're attracted to her and she is with you, enjoy your time with each other.

  • Just chatting is not anywhere near interested in sex with you. Take it slow and get to know her better, then you can find out if she would be interested. When I was younger than you, I had a woman around 60 let me know she wanted sex and we had some very wonderful times. Great experience!

  • why do you feel weird? both consenting adults

    • Well, cause of the age different i thought it might be weird?

    • not at all you're attracted to who you are attracted to

  • Not particularly weird no, she might appreciate her plumbing being serviced by a 30 year old. You have to bear in mind that a woman of that age might not be interested in sex anymore if she has gone through the change.

  • Not weird, and unlikely. Invite her over

  • Love 💕 old guys online does that count

  • Been there, done that, and it did not work because of the age difference, even though I liked her very much. Different ideas, different experiences etc. I was sorry it did not work, but it was my fault as I did not put a lot of effort into it. My loss I think

  • Not weird at all!

  • You need to love who you want to but seriously I would not
    use a girl 23 years old for sex, it would be for pure love, not sex

  • It is not weird at all. I actually prefer older myself.

    • how much old and what about younger ones?

    • @imbeingmyself I am only 21, so 18 for younger. On older. No limits

    • oh okay

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  • Not weird! It happens to me and its nothing to be ashamed of

  • There nothing wrong with that girls tend to find older men attractive so I don't see it weird if guys find older women attractive.

  • I've always been attracted to men who are at least 10 years older than me. It's hust your own personal sexual preference.

  • What if guys in their late 30s are attracted to a 51 year old woman?

  • Try it you'll like it !!!
    Possibly she hasn't gotten any lately.

  • To a woman closer to 90 years old than 80? You must be jesting!

    • no, i'm 27, she is 60?

    • If it worked for France's Macron, it might work for you, too; if it does, if you make each other happy, go ahead!

  • Yes many moons ago but not now lol

  • Its normal to feel the attraction, though she might be far more guarded about doing anything with someone much younger

  • Not weird.

  • It's fine

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