Sexual attraction: white men?

[Anonymous]

Ima black woman, and I’ve noticed that I only get sexual attraction with white men. And it’s strong. Super strong. They can’t keep their eyes off me. And I don’t get why it happens. I don’t experience it with black men. But white men? Too often! It’s such a strong feeling. It’s as if they want to take me and put me against a wall- and fuck my brains out. Part of me thinks it has to do with white men wanting to be with black women but are afraid too. Does this happen to you? And if you’re a psychologist- does this happen to have to do with me? Do I give off like harlot or jezebel spirit that only they pick up on? It’s so strange.

[Vickymoore9]

My step mom is a Quarter Somali my dads about as white as white gets 😂 my mom is the only white girl he’s dated 😆 We actually talked and he told me he had always been attracted to darker complexions. He didn’t go into being attracted to black girls but the fact before my mom his girlfriend was Filipino/white mix. He also dated a girl who was Indian like from India, It isn’t something people control it like when you eat something you either like it or you don’t. You can’t make yourself like something you don’t, so maybe these guy are taking you in as eye candy getting taste to remember

[Anonymous]

Sounds like some sort of fantasy you're having about forbidden fruit. You might be picking up some vibes too. There's no telling if you don't act on it. I'm sure if you give off an "interested" vibe, some men will pick up on it. Eyes meeting and all that rot.

[Asker]

I mean I’ve been with white men. So not a fantasy on my end. But I do get the most sexual attraction from white men. Just thought it was interesting.

[Anonymous]

not racist or anything, but most black women are very hot to fuck, just fuck. I think black man knows them better and probably had previous experiences that most just feel intimidated by them, to me what makes you attracted more to white men rather than black is the lust in their eyes that turns you on

[Asker]

“Not racist but most black women are hot to fuck, just fuck.” We’re not worthy of love or respect of marriage right? Just to be fucked?

[Opinion Owner]

lol, don't blame me, of course you can find love and marriage

[Asker]

Why do you think so lowly of black women?

[Opinion Owner]

i don't think lowly of anybody, but as white i want to marry a white woman, if everybody is mixed race there would be no diversity in the world

[Asker]

That logically makes no sense at all. If everyone was mixed then there would be no diversity... ? Lol huh? Being white is being diverse. At all. But that’s none of my business. My business is you opening your statement with black women are only good to fuck. Why do you think that? Where did that come from? Who taught that to you?

[Opinion Owner]

I learned from human history, i see different races as diversity, i want my lineage and family to continue, for that i need a person with similar traits and culture for children, and what is wrong with that? don't you want your children to look like you?

[Asker]

You’re ignoring my question.

[Opinion Owner]

not at all, i mean what i said, i can fuck black or Asian girls but might not want to present them to our friends or families nor let the relationship develop further, not because we don't love or respect them, we are just not compatible, for some people those barriers aren't a problem, but i do not cross them, we can control our feelings better than women

[Anonymous]

If you where white you would have been treated the same way most likely. The only reason you aren't seeing black men is because from what i see there is desire for white women among black men.

[Asker]

That must be it. Lol

[abc3643]

Maybe it's simply because you are a very good looking Black woman who may have considerably mixed genes?

[Asker]

I am mixed but I don’t think that’s it. And I don’t like the insinuation that a black woman must be mixed in order to be attractive. There are lots of attractive black women in this world. Please look around.

[abc3643]

I am not insinuating that a black woman must be mixed in order to be attractive because I don't feel that way at all, but I understand your perspective and I am sorry for any perceived offense.

[Guffrus]

Be mindful of confirmation bias.

[Asker]

I don’t understand please explain

[Guffrus]

Humans are not very good at processing information, there are a number of weaknesses in our perception and thinking etc. One of these flaws is something called confirmation bias, what happens is when we think we have an explanation for something we have a strong tendancy to acknowledge and remember examples or evidence which reinforces the idea that we already have and ignore information which contradicts it. You may have had experiences initially which were infact just random chance which sparked off this idea and since then you might just be cherry picking the data without even knowing that you are doing it.

[Asker]

I don’t think this is what this is. I’m 100% sure this is what’s happening.

[Guffrus]

Well, i just suggested that you be mindful of the effect. Just because you are 100% sure doesn't mean you are right.

[jshm2]

Probably just your imagination. Or those are actually White cops, looking to catch you stealing

[Asker]

This was a racist comment for no reason.

[lanadelrey25]

It's not a problem, beauty is subjective.

[bowenw]

They may find you striking because you are different than the girls in their life. You may also be more attractive and better dressed than women they are used to seeing. They may be reluctant to approach you as they feel you are out of their league.

[tallcuck]

You got to be hot. Most women wish to have your problems...

[Asker]

I am not hot actually. I do think I have sex appeal. But I do not think I am hot or beautiful.

[tallcuck]

Like most hot women...

[Iamhonored]

Maybe they just feel very attracted to you, maybe it's how you look or what you personalities are like as a black woman

[SpaceGalaxy]

Many white girls crave the black cock so it goes both ways!

[Asker]

Yes but do the white women have sexual attraction to black men? Like hot and heavy you can feel it in the room?

[Asker]

Also, you used black cock so you reduced the black man to only his penis... but you said white girls lol. Interesting.

[SpaceGalaxy]

You are very picky with my words! ok

[gandolph3]

Do you want white men

[Asker]

Yes I like white men

[gandolph3]

Then maybe you present yourself more to them

[Coolmanxl]

yeah absolutely I liking black girls

[Asker]

Cool!

[Anonymous]

No, it's not to do with you outside of you being generally attractive. You're correct in that they do want to fuck your brains out. It's because you're "different" and thus exciting. It is typically a purely sexual thing, like a fetish. I'm sure Asian women would be able to talk about the exact same experience as you're having.

[Asker]

Yes i agree