Sexual body count? Does it bother you?

[Jlegacy]

I'm up to three and if I could regret, I would say I prefer it was zero but then again that's me.

So what's your own opinion.

[Alyssa11]

I wouldn't judge someone solely based on their sex life, if I decide to date someone. If a guy has slept with loads of women but he treats me with respect, then who am I to judge? I understand that people go through different phases in their lives, and I'd be happy to be that person in his life who would make him feel ready for commitment.

Having said that, I don't think I'd feel too comfortable to date someone who's been around too much. I'm talking about a crazy body count. Your body is your temple, and having slept with a ridiculous amount of people like that makes me question how they view intimacy and relationships...

I'm a virgin for that reason. I have a high libido but God knows I can't be sexually vulnerable with someone I don't feel emotionally connected to and safe with.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Is the question if my own body count bothers me or if the body count of a possible partner would bother me?

I'm not in general bothered by body counts. What's important is whether or not they're clean. If they've cheated. And if it's only been one-night stands or not. Maybe if they only know numbers but not even names, that would bother me as I don't want to be just a number.
Whether we're compatible is important as well.

I'm not bothered by my own body count at all. Because.. well why should I?

[JBlade]

Body count bothers me. I'm a virgin, by choice, so I think it's only fair to want the same from a partner. I shouldn't just have to accept anybody.

I may consider someone with a body count of 1 but sex isn't something that I crave so I'd need time to make sure I can trust them as a life partner.

[missmels]

Doesn’t bother me. Though I would hope it’s not like outrageous. Mostly for STD concerns, but otherwise who am I to judge.

[muscularbumblebee]

Body count doesn’t matter. We aren’t children anymore. whether you’re a female with 20 or guy with 0 doesn’t matter…


What does matter though is you are safe and it’s all protected and everyone tested. However we still have our preferences and number should be higher by age. Eg 15 may be a lot for someone 18 but not to 40 years old


Ideal number I’d say though is between 5-15 so you know what you’re doing but still not too many

[lindakayyyy]

I don't understand the question?

[Jlegacy]

I mean, if you get bothered by your body count. Meaning how many people you've had sex with.

[elizamichale1]

Absolutely not...
Mine is literally somewhere around 1500 tbh

[Maddy1130]

Maybe

[Anonymous]

Depends. I'm turned off by men who fuck around a lot of women In hookups cuz I feel like if they want to fuck me they just want another pussy for their body count. But if he had several girlfriends before that's fine cuz I know he can commit to a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Mines 7.