Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Today I have seen posts by people about their sexual preferences and sometimes how scared they can be to express these. Therefor I wanted to share this myTake. I am sure haters will be coming at me but if you are disrespectful your comment will be deleted. Just letting you know.
Also this has nothing to do with mental issues like pedophilia or rape. Just making it clear.
BEING ATTRACTED TO THICK/BIG GIRLS
Now many of you will say 'this is so wrong because he is interested in her just because of how fat she is and not because he knows her personality".
These type of people make me cringe.
Because : What are you doing when you do the EXACT same thing by looking for a hot girl/dude?
Would you really date someone you do not find desirable? Probably not. So why are you so butthurt about others having preferences?
He finds big girls beautiful, and YES they are beautiful. it is unhealthy to be overweight YES, And they are more aware of their own body than YOU ARE, but thats not the question.
This is his PERSONAL sexual attraction and turning this into some political bullshit is not something a smart person would do.
It is the same thing as saying 'you shouldn't wear this traditional dress from japan to your prom because it is 'Racist'. ITS JUST A DAMN DRESS THAT IS BEAUTIFUL, what is so wrong with it?
What is so wrong with finding different things BEAUTIFUL can someone please explain?
Another one has asked a question about fetishizing black men. And he was clearly hurt about this. I just do not understand why?
Tall girls are cute and thats fine.
Short girls are cute and thats fine.
Curvy girls are cute and thats fine but when she is overweight she has to be ugly? When he is black it has to be racism?
Racism is a negative emotion that grows towards OTHER races. Appreciating skin color of someone or eye shape of someone or body type IS NOT racism.
I cannot believe people are literally being political about these things. Save your brain cells from something else!
What Girls & Guys Said
16 31LOL. It's always some skinny, in shape guy with some big fat plumper of a woman.
This is not realistic. You do not get couples like this. No attractive guy is going to be with some complete heffer, despite what her delusion leads her to fantasize about.
BS. I know several of them.
@Lance1965 What some geeky little nerd with scrawny little arms and pewny little legs who's a chubby chaser? No attractive guy is going to be with some big fat oaf of a woman. FACT
I have a fair amount of women tell me in person that I am handsome. When I ask how old they think I am they guess around 10 years younger than I am. On top of that I workout 3 or 4 times a week and eat healthy. My girlfriend of 5+ years is a bbw. I am proud to be with her.
@MysteriousDarkness What some geeky little nerd with scrawny little arms and pewny little legs who's a chubby chaser? No attractive guy is going to be with some big fat oaf of a woman. FACT
@Asker Totally agreed on your PREMISE, but the unfortunate reality is that, in fact, you *do see* thinner/slightly fitter guys with whales. It makes absolutely no sense, and is proof of some kind of weird mental defect or something, but it is something that happens.
Sorry, not @Asker, I meant @Opinion Poster.
Oh hey! Also, @Lance1965, in case you see this, Blocking someone who disagrees with you means you're stupid. ↗ That's for you, clowny.
@Anon-ymous1 You're right. This is what many whales want, instead of getting in shape, they want to try and change society's view of attractiveness... They want the whale to become desirable and attractive. This is why they'll draw pictures like the one above, to generate an idea that in shape men and gigantic gelatinous whales are a thing, and you may get some thinner men with low self worth who settle and fall for it. Also read your take about blocking, completely agree with that as well. I've been blocked by many as soon as they started to lose the argument and I've had others threaten to block me for simply opposing their opinion... As if I'm actually supposed to be threatened by that? Idiots, I swear.
Totally man.
I used to like legally younger girls (19 to 23). However after dating one for 9 months I’m more interested in a girl closer to my age.
That is true, my preference is African darker skin tones. But I like everybody.