Sexual question?

Is it fair for a guy to not want to eat his girlfriend out because he has had bad experiences from that in previous relationships. Is it considered unfair for him to refuse to return the favor even though I give him head all the time?
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  • We can't tell exactly what from his past gave him bad experience. But it's not something you can ignore.
    Fairness isn't a factor, if he had some sort of traumatic experience that if he tried again could bring back worse things then it's fair.
    But if I were him I wouldn't expect you to give me head all the time since I don't return the feeling to you.

    • Thank you so much for the advice!

    • Happy to help. Messages open if you need anything! Have a nice day🙂

    • Thank you so much! You as well

  • It really is not a question about fairness. You can decide for yourself if you think it is fair. But it is a question of are you willing to accept that relationship. I know of women who do not like receiving, but love giving, so it works great for them. But personally, I would want to be giving and receiving.

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  • Gotta Lick it to Stick it

  • If you are in a committed relationship, you should both give yourselves fully to it without withholding anything. His prior bad experience is no reason not to make you feel loved.

  • It is unfair to not eat you. Ask him what the bad experiences he's had in the past so you can help him get over them. If he doesn't like hair perhaps you could shave or trim your bush. If he's worried about taste, tell him you are very clean and offer to use some Pussy Licker flavored lube.

  • Nah talk him through the problem and help him out if you want it given back.

    • Thank you:) I will!

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  • It's not fair but you can't make him do something he doesn't feel like doing because even if he forces himself to go down on you he'll definitely suck at it.

  • thats rude he should eat u out! do u like giving him head tho?

    • Yes I do

    • @wenzwarrior u a dude lol?

    • No! I'm a girl!!!

  • If he's really that opposed, I suppose another form of quid pro quo could be worked out. Fingering, etc.

  • I can't see how you can have a bad experience eating pussy

    • He told me that he doesn't like the smell of a vagina and that the last girl he ate out said that she was going to him and started missing instead. ugh... its like I feel like I am frustrated but I'm not gonna want him to do something like this if he doesn't want to or like to, ya know?

    • *Started Pissing* (not missing)

  • Yes, I would say it's unfair. Bad experiences in a prior relationship shouldn't be a reason not to go down on you.

    • I agree. I just wanna make sure I wasn't trippin lol!