Guys, sexual teasing?

[Anonymous]

You're in bed with a girl and she's teasing you, maybe she's half clothed, she's rubbing on you and running her nails on your skin, lightly rubbing your dick through your boxers, how does that feel? Do you like it and how long can you handle it before it becomes too much? I'm partially asking because when I'm doing this with a guy he moans like crazy and starts thrusting so I feel like he's liking it but he soon makes me stop so I guess its too much.

[Tex08]

There are so many factors in determining if it is" too much. " I can say that it feels amazing. But if you or he us uncomfortable with taking your sexual interactions further, it makes perfect sense that he keeps stopping you.
If you want to go further with him, tell him that explicitly.

[Asker]

The problem with us is that he wants to go all the way and I don't.

[Tex08]

Have you had a conversation explaining exactly how far you are willing to go?

[Asker]

Every time he's tried I've told him no and once when we were drunk I said that I don't want to go that far with him but he probably doesn't remember those words. Regardless I'm pretty sure he knows I'm not going to give in but he still wants to try. I've given him a few hand jobs but the last time he just didn't cum and was getting really frustrated and kept trying to put it in. I felt kinda bad.

[Tex08]

There are several paths you could go down. I've been in a similar situation. (It was extremely frustrating.) But most importantly, tell him exactly what you are or are not comfortable with. Draw clear and distinct lines and make sure that you both know where they are.

[Asker]

I know he knows it isn't gonna happen but in the moment he can't help but try.

[Tex08]

That's no excuse. If you both understand that you do not want to have sex you should not tolerate him trying.

[Asker]

You're right, but I do. Its not that I don't want it physically, but I am a virgin and don't want to give him my virginity. I probably want it just as bad as he does though. But another thing I'm wondering is why he couldn't cum last time? Do you think since his mind was set on sex the hand job couldn't take him there?

[Tex08]

You should never over react to one time. There is no telling why he didn't cum. Do not worry until you can't make him cum on a regular basis.

[SmoMan]

I absolutely love a good cock-tease. It makes the time when you actually do have sex so much more amazing.

[Asker]

A lot of guys talk about it like its torture lol

[SmoMan]

Only if they never get off. Teasing builds pressure and when you release that pressure it feels amazing. If you don't release it, yeah... it is uncomfortable.

[FunkyMonkee]

My ex used to do that for me all the time! I was always naked, the entire time. Once I got into it (it may take me a few seconds), I tell her, "I'll give you just 3 or 4 days to cut that out!!' I've NEVER made her stop!! SHE tells ME when SHE'S had enough!! Lol. She also did something to my nipples with her tongue that was FANTASTIC!! But, she refused to tell me what it was! I think she'd put her mouth on my nipple and then flick or lick the under side of her tongue on it. For some reason, when I think of her doing that, I get the word, "cherry" in my head, like it has something to do with her tongue and/or my nipple.

[Octavius]

Once you see his hips start thrusting on their own it's time to show him mercy and get down to business. Teasing is fun and great ONLY if it leads to more graphic things otherwise it's really awful and leaves most people frustrated and very pissed.

[Asker]

I see.

[blondfrog]

Sounds hot lol its still action.

[Techno47]

Ok so this is the big problem here.

You are playing with fire. If you get raped then it's going to be your fault.

Lack of the better word is. Your going to have to take accountability for your shit.

Just because your a woman doesn't give you the right to tease a man like this knowing he wants more.

This kind of behavior is no different then climbing over a fence a poking the bear.

I would either go all the way with this guy or let him move on to someone that actually cares about him and his needs.

Woman that string men along like this is straight up trash. Any man that supports a woman doing this is supporting woman's behavior.

Not only that, but any man that supports a woman doing that also supports men going to prison, because some lady thinks it's cute to play games.

He goes to jail and she isn't held accountable. Sounds gross and any woman that does this crap should be ashamed of herself. Grow up!