Sexy lingerie selfie on a difficult day?

[Anonymous]

Guys, when you’re feeling low and exhausted. Does it help when your girl send you a sexy selfie in her lingerie?

[MrOracle]

It depends, I suppose, on what KIND of difficult day it is. If I'm behind at work and it's a very physical day, and I've got the customer looking over my shoulder asking questions, then it's probably not going to help. If it's just a day that's not too crazy but has been somewhat frustrating, and then I get a break (lunch, where I can sit down for a few minutes and it's quiet, say), then something like that can be a very nice mood enhancer.

Here's the thing - if someone has a job like mine sometimes is - construction-related, heavy equipment, driving, etc., then there will be days when, even if he really appreciates it, he's not gonna have time to reply right away, and maybe not until the end of the workday. Many jobs that men do are incredibly attention-dependent and can often be dangerous if you are distracted for even a moment. Many days, I'm spending much of my day working high on a ladder, with both hands over my head running cables or securing things to the ceiling. On that kind of day, distractions are literally dangerous, so I don't look at my phone or answer calls until I can take a break - which is sometimes not for hours, because I've often got entire crews waiting on me to finish my portion of the job so they can start doing theirs.

I say this because it's important to understand what kind of work your man does. If he's in an office all day, he's likely got plenty of time to reply. If he's doing any kind of blue-collar job, he may well NOT be able to reply, at least until lunch or the end of the day. Many girls will send a sexy pic and then get upset if he doesn't reply right away, or if he doesn't start a whole conversation, but that's just not always possible, so if your man has that kind of job, don't think he's ignoring you - he's just trying to get his work done so that he can be FINISHED and be able to get back to you IN PERSON, where hopefully he'll show you his appreciation in full.

[Asker]

Wow! I really appreciate you sharing this so clearly and thoroughly. You are right on the girls having expectations and I’m guilty of that sometimes. This gives me insight on when to do it and not to do it. Thank you for sharing your perspective!

[MrOracle]

Happy to help - seeing from another perspective that doesn't automatically occur to you can really help you understand things. I know this from experience - I also had to learn to see things from a woman's perspective before I could understand a number of things.

[ohsheeT]

I knew there was a reason why I wanted a girlfriend damn it I forgot all about that I need to find a girlfriend LOL

[stratford]

Always :-)

[Nigjt]

Send me ur pictures then come on over.
God Bless

[Emilianorodríguez]

No, I have more important things to do.

[AngryCarl2]

More important than spending quality time with your SO? You mean like Call of Duty?

[Jmmmfi4]

Definitely

[Anonymous]

Absolutely. Unfortunately my wife just... doesn't.

[Anonymous]

Just b prepared that they’re going to expect more when they see u again.

[Asker]

Oh he’s definitely getting more ☺️

[Opinion Owner]

Good! Lucky him! And you! Haha

[Anonymous]

I'm sure they wouldn't complain