She doesn't want to take the after day pill?

[Anonymous]

I have had sex with the girl I'm dating, and the condom got of into her vagina likely with some semen that was in it.

This was the third time we had sex during this day, so most likely I ejaculated very little or nothing at all. But the risk isn't negligible, as it could even be that I ejaculated directly inside her.

The relevant thing is that her father is anti drugs and, even when she was very scared of getting pregnant, she talked with him and he convinced her not to take the after day pill! 🙀

Any feedback will be greatly appreciated.

[Berethor]

Looks like a might fall to a baby trap, and get ready for a shotgun wedding. :)

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/TheBabyTrap

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/ShotgunWedding

[Asker]

Unlikely. When I told her in previous situations, jokingly, that I would fecundate her, she took it quite badly.

[itsmyownname]

It's her body and her choice. Mistakes can happen. The pill after isn't healthy, it's a cocktail full of hormones and it's totally on her wether she takes it or not..
I like that she talked to her father first, it doesn't sound like he's mad.
There's still a risk but I wouldn't worry yet.

[Asker]

((yet))

[itsmyownname]

Yes, but there's always a risk.. if you're afraid, you shouldn't have sex.. it's really that easy. I don't think something's gonna happen, but if, she's going to find a solution. Stop worry about things that aren't there rn

[jennie16]

I can’t believe she talked to her father about sex tho. In some ways good for her bc she has a supportive father, but I can’t imagine knowing my daughter having sex if I was a father 😭😭😭

[itsmyownname]

@jennie16 it's kinda weird for me, too (I don't even have a dad) but it's also kind cool I don't know

[Asker]

She talked about this with her father, shouting, in the middle of a populated street. Everyone got to know the story. Not so cool.

[itsmyownname]

Hahaha omg that's weird

[Alya_pillowprincess]

You can hope nothing comes from it and don't let it happen again. That's about all you can do 🙃

[Alya_pillowprincess]

You could also start planning your baby shower. Depending on which way it goes

[Asker]

I have been dating her for only a month. Sadly I was thinking about breaking up with her before this, because she's extremely moody. But it got even worse.

[Alya_pillowprincess]

Oh well maybe don't break up until you know for sure she isn't pregnant but if she isn't then time to gtfo :p I mean im no relationship coach so just my opinion

[Asker]

Sorry, but I already broke up 😶

[Alya_pillowprincess]

I feel like this is a troll

[Asker]

Although it's hard to believe, I tell you this is true.

[AustinMan]

If she's still talking to her father about a potential pregnancy, run!!

[Asker]

I used a bike.

[AustinMan]

God, I hope so. That's one pathological situation.

[boggboss]

Feedback on what there is ntohing you can do if she won't take it lol

[Asker]

I did this 🤦‍♂️