She is more sexual than me, and she feels quilty?

[nobodyxd]

Just looking some opinions, what other people think, so here's the case. (And please no "fuck her" and so on dumb comments, that's not the case)

Basically my girl is more sexual than me, if she could, she would do 2-3 rounds every evening, but i feel that I can go 1 round and then just 1-2hr relax, and then i can go again, just to relax and get my little fella relaxed. I know some guys can go many rounds again, but not me, i would go yes 2. round straight, but it's little bit hurting my little fella, maybe he isn't used to this, i don't know. Point is not to fuck, but just be sexual, i think you get what i mean. That's the backstory, so main story is, that next day she was feeling worried, and sad, and all of what possible be, because she understood in her mind, that she feels like she is pushing me to do things, that she wants, and so on. I said to her, no you are not pushing me to do anything that i don't want to do, I love you, and you want to go second round, then i try to make it happen, but i have said that it's little bit hurting, and she was romantic and sexual and we made out, kissed and etc, and got to that pleasing point 😉, yes i might didn't came anything out, because it was too soon for second round. After when we went to sleep, usually we cuddle, then she said stay on your side of bed, and i didn't be mad, because she wasn't mad at me or something, i knew something is bothering her, and i just have to wait till she is ready to talk about it. Next morning we talked about it, and now we are at the backstory. She texted me many times that, she feels it's not right, and that she is a bad person and she is a struggle for me and so on, i told her, that no i choose to love you because your roots, not because of look, personality over look guys. She feels still miserable about all this thing, she asked why i haven't left i said because i love you, and you are unique. So why should i left you, relationship works on communication and each other understanding.

[Effably]

Format your text a little bit so it feels less like someone talking for minutes without breathing and more like an actual retelling.

That said, sex drives are what they are and if you two are truly incompatible and it is causing distress there is no easy fix.

The first thing to do is to be honest and clear with her. Making certain that she understands that if you two do anything it is because you both want it - not because you feel pushed. Being horny is a lot easier to handle than feeling like you're coercing a loved one. Make it abundantly clear that you want 100% of the stuff you do with her.

Once that is sorted you two can look over your options of alternate sex ane what not. There are plenty of healthy ways to last longer but none to go multiple rounds. You could potentially make this a good thing with a creative enough solution.

[nobodyxd]

Yes my English is not very good for storytelling, sorry. No i would not say we are incompatible, just she felt after this, that she is making me do things, that might not be okay with me. Yes we have been honest and we have been talked about it, and we have understood each other, yes it might be time to over talk these things, as time changes and needs too. Sometimes maybe have had these evenings, where she wants to do it, but i don't like feel, maybe a stress or work things have been hard, but then she is disappointed that i don't feel like doing this, not that i don't want, yes i do, and she knows that. But on the other hand i don't want her to feel miserable or disappointed of this.

[DonkeyDan]

I think this might be her subtle way of telling you that your your libidos don't match and that it is a problem for her.

Sexual compatibility is a big deal in a relationship, and where one partners requirement for sex is higher than the other it often leads to a unhappy relationship for the person with the higher sex drive, which can then lead to them looking for satisfaction elsewhere.

I think you are going to need to up your game in this situation so you can maintain her satisfaction. Maybe with some toys etc. That is assuming she isn't already considering looking elsewhere.

[nobodyxd]

No she's not looking elsewhere, but yes i think we should trie some toys

[SnakeBoop]

that was really difficult to read.
sex drives of course always vary. she could look into masturbating when she needs to, you could always try toys and such together so your penis isn't used for the multiple rounds afterwards.
but if she thinks its such a big deal, your relationship will probably end.

[nobodyxd]

Yes i understand what you are saying, and we have been lately trying to spice things up in our bedroom, with some toys. But doesn't that mean, if she wants to end relationship, then she just needs more sex, just because i can't provide it, or what?

[wankiam]

she really shouldn't feel bad but you could help by introducing some sex toys and encourage her to use them when she wants and show her you really understand her needs even if you feel you can't always fullfil them

[nobodyxd]

Yes as i replayed, previous, then yeah, we have been looking to spice things up in our bedroom, maybe one day buying few toys. Maybe yes i have to show her, that i understand her needs, now if i think that way, then i didn't looked that picture, as i need to fullfill her needs, if i can't. Some things just opens my eyes, yes it is my first relationship ever and it includes sex and so i am learning every time something new.

[wankiam]

get her a toy sooner rather than later as this needs addressing now before it starts eating away at the fabric of your relationship. they are easy to order online if you dont want to visit an adult store though it might be fun if you did go to an adult store together. anyway i hope you get it sorted because you do sound like you are good together despite this issue

[nobodyxd]

Yes we are good together, but just now has this problem came up, and i think talking to her at evening and i think we can find solution with toys to this problem. 😊

[wankiam]

good plan and i wish you both all the best

[nobodyxd]

Thank you!

[TheSpaceGnome]

Finger bang her after your wang is too tired?

[Alextry]

My recommendation is you eat her pussy until is satisfied or she will find another guy

[nobodyxd]

Yes i have done it, and will continue 😉

[Anonymous]

I keep losing track of reading the wall of text but never let her go. It is a good thing she doesn't want to leave you, because she is dream the girlfriend for many men