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It's a great thing to do with your girl(s), but it takes a little getting used to do right. It's not like porn, boys...
*Note this is mainly for introducing girls to anal sex, not having it with girls who are already well accustomed to it.
The first thing to consider is how dangerous anal sex can be. In my experience, girls can get hurt much more easily by vigorous anal sex than vaginal sex, so you'll want to heed the old "only fools rush in" saying. Also, I've noticed condoms slip down and even off sometimes durinal anal.
But the good stuff. It's dominant to take a girl's ass, which is why i think many straight guys are into it despite it being an actviity that gay guys do a lot more often. It's also a brand new hole of pleasure to discover. Discovery is on your side...you're a frontiersman. Let your confidence come in this fact as you set down this path towards anal pleasure...
It can be painful, obviously, but that means you will just need to be smarter about how you bring it up. Never bring it up if she's not aroused at the moment of hearing it...there's a lot of things that may and will run through her mind--what if it hurts? what if you start thinking about other guys she could have had anal sex with or just the fact that you were able to have it with her and then you think she's a slut? What if she's trying to save it for her husband?
Now that you've brought it up when she's wet and horny, you'll want to know what to do about it...if she really is brand new to it, use lube on her and for the first few times playing with it just use your fingers. A good time to do this is when you're eating her out telling her you're going to play with her ass and then start fingering her ass. Should be noted that this is one of those rare instances where it's ok for a man to get a manicure as cuticles and long fingernails inside her ass can end very, very poorly...
After she's gotten used to fingering, I finally make it the move for real anal sex. Again, analytically...this will always seem a bad idea. So the, wait until you've brought her to almost come doggystyle then stop slap it with your dick and then lube up. I've noticed vaseline works better because it's thicker and you should put it both inside her and on your dick
you're still not out of of the woods yet (or into them as it were...) Be slow with the process of pushing a bit more and more inside of her with each stroke. It should take five or so minutes to get in there enough to start really having anal sex...don't rush this. This is the one time in sex it's ok to go slow motion and actually preferred...
She can also squat on it and whiel this seems a lot tougher on the girl it has the bonus of being able to finger her while she's also getting you anally. Experiment here.
So, gentlemen, if you're an ass virgin yourself, you likely cringed at a lot of this, but after much trial and error i can say this is the deep and dirty of being able to actually take that thing you stare as so much. Again, I'd say only do this with girls you're dating since it is a process, but I do forsee this becoming more common than it already is so you might as well get a head start
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What Girls & Guys Said
13 14Nope, she wouldn't, anal sex is disgusting... vaginal sex is the only real sex ;)
lol good argument... you really covered all the points...
Thanks ;)
Yeah I like anal sex but I like giving it even more (with a strap on), especially since guys can get off that way.
that's interesting you can enjoy both
Love this :)
Can u put your strap on inside me
me and my boyfriend tried it once now and it did hurt. I asked him to stop after a while but we are going to try it more times :) I just like to experiment and see if it will get better for me. I also love giving him the pleasure tho.
This might be useful:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a6855-comfortable-anal-sex-for-beginners-a-guide-to-the-first-time
Anal sex is one of the most painful things I have done, my boyfriend and I tried several different things and we spent a lot of time working up to it, I even bought special numbing lube. But when it came down to it I was in tears from just the tip and he had to stop, its seriously not for everyone, I always wanted to do it but it was just to painful.
did you try with fingering first?
Yes, and I still enjoy that but going all the way was to painful.
well at least thats something lol
You should never use numbing lube, especially when trying something new. It's a very bad idea. That pain is to tell you if something is wrong, if it suddenly jumps up then something is very wrong, if you're numb to that, you won't feel it and will only end up damaging your body.
This might help. It's always worked for me, even with reluctant girls who ended up loving it:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a6855-comfortable-anal-sex-for-beginners-a-guide-to-the-first-time
I am not saying you should ever do anything you don't want to do. But everyone is different. Numbing lubes are not a good idea. How long it takes is subjective. It runs from -- I went all in with 7 inches very smoothly with one anal virgin. We were in spoons, and it just kinda went well naturally. Another girl, it took 4 months of light play, small butt plugs, learning to clean out her ass, and anallingus. But we got there. Holy God did we get there... So the time it takes can vary vastly. Good luck.
I hate anal sex. Just throwing it out there that it's not everyone's cup of tea. I don't want to zone out through pain so a guy can feel like a man.
that's what this take for... so you don't have to go through pain
I've tried it many different ways, friend. And even with several different people. Just not my thing. Though, my last two guys didn't like how it felt, either. To each their own.
It is always painful until a girl relaxes. Some girls simply cannot overcome the inhibition about having a dick in their ass. They are constantly squeezing, trying to reject the unwelcome invader and, by their own actions, they make it painful. Many of these same girls will say that any girl who claims she enjoys anal sex is a liar because they don't want to confront the fact that the problem is their attitude, not the activity. I have had women tell me that the strongest orgasms they ever experienced came as the result of having their clit fingered while receiving anal sex.
I've honestly tried MANY different techniques and it just doesn't work well for me. I've done more out there stuff, so I really don't think it's inhibitions. People pushing that anal is the best for everyone is just as silly as saying nobody likes it. I've had many conversations with people, and my thoughts are that women have slightly different set ups of where the "hidden" erogenous tissue is (as we now know the clit is like an iceberg that had more than you can see).
Would u fuck a guys ass