She poked a hole in the condom?

I started dating this girl 2 weeks ago and everything was going so well until last night. I was at my office when she called me and said that she wanted to go out again and couldn't wait to have sex with me. We went to a bar to drink something and I got really drunk even though I don't remember drinking much, it's so weird because I usually don't get drunk so easily. She didn't drink at all. She drove us to my house, and the last thing I remember is that she put on me a condom she had brought and then we started fucking. I woke up today and she wasn't here. The condom we used was on my bed and I noticed that it had a hole in it. Did she do it or could it have been a fault condom? I've been calling her number and texting her for hours now but she won't answer. What if she gets pregnant? I don't want to become a father. What should I do?
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  • If a condom develops a tear it will often completely come apart due to the tension applied. If there is just a small hole but the rest of the condom is intact then I would also be concerned about whether or not she tampered with it.

    If she did indeed do such a thing then and turns out to be pregnant then you should contact the police with your concerns. You should have kept the condom, as gross as that sounds. It's evidence.

  • its possible the condom broke during sex or broke when you took it off but that seems doubtful to me but condoms aren't 100% effective so one could of broke

    although anything is possible at this point so I don't know

    • No that's what the condom challenge is all about to spread the message that condoms don't breaks easy

    • @anonyumous Condoms do break upon occasion, though. I've had a few go south.

    • @HungLikeAHorsefly It didn't never happen to me. The US may get worse quality than Europe, who knows.

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  • If it was a tiny pinhole, she did it. When condoms break, they don't just have a neat, clean, little hole, they tear.
    It sounds like she's definitely guilty, and you can try pressing charges against her, especially if she becomes pregnant as a result, since birth control sabotage is a form of domestic abuse.

  • You need to calm down cause stress solves nothing. Just gonna have to wait and see what she says... but from now on, you bring your own and only ever use your own. Not worth the risk.

  • Communication is key. Keep calling or drive to her house if you're super worried.

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  • Baby trapping you.

  • In my experience, when a condom breaks it's pretty catastrophic. That is, it breaks in a big way. If it's just a pinhole, it's still possible it's a faulty condom but I would be less convinced.

  • Oddly enough, that is perfectly legal and even encouraged by some feminist groups. You sir, are fucked.

  • Save the condom for evidence in a Ziploc and go get your blood tested for date rape substances asap.

    • Best advice

    • ... save a urine sample as well from the first and/or second restroom visit since that happened.

  • Keep calling that's weird

    • Very weird indeed

    • Take care

  • Welcome to a lifetime of poverty caused by child-support payments.
    Her urgency, re she had to see you that night, would have been because she was ovulating.
    Your account of events also suggests that she used a date-rape drug on you.
    The experience that you described was one of the reasons why I went MGTOW monk 16 years ago.
    It is difficult to be put in the frame for child support, if one does not fuck the woman.

  • I think right now a you can do is wait for her response. In case she says she is pregnant demand a paternity test no matter what!

    there's a good chance she might be trying to pin you as the father for someone else's baby

  • Sounds like she gave you GHB or at least date raped you, i had a chick do that once refused to take the pill and claimed cause i smoked weed she couldn't get pregnant then ignored me for a week what a bitch

    • Seriosuly consider crushing up a plan b and giving it to her unknowingly since she was such a pos to you if its within 72 hours

  • What kind of hole? If it is a pinhole, then she did it.

    • Yes, it's definitely a pinhole.

    • yup, that's fishy

  • Yeah. You're fucked. Does she know your full name and address?

    • Of course she knows my name. And she drove us to my house yesterday.

    • Start panicking when someone tries to collect your DNA

    • Damn... this was yesterday? Go buy 2-3 day after pills hangout with her crush it in a Margarita drink and give ut to her

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  • i mean hopefully not but you never know

  • Sound life you got drugged my dude. She's gonna take all your hard earned pennies through that child support. Yeeeeeeeeeeeet

    • As i went through very similar i had stress like a mothefucker for like 5 days thought i knocked her up

  • Oops, looks like somebody might be a daddy

  • Leave Her

  • You should wait until replays back.