She really likes it when I finger her cervix but not when my dick touches it?

Soo she LOVES it when I'm fingering her really deep and I'm rubbing her cervix, but when my dick touches her cervix it hurts. I'm super gentle, and always follow her vocal cues. She always wants me penetrating as deep as possible, but sometimes I'll press against her cervix and then it hurts her a little. Is there something I can do to penetrate her just and deeply without hurting her, like another angle or something?

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  • I feel you bro, it can be tricky navigating what makes her feel good down there. A few things to try:

    - Go in at a shallower angle rather than straight in. Point the tip of your dick up toward her belly button instead of directly at her cervix.

    - Have her experiment with different positions - doggy, with her on top, or her legs up by her head. Different angles hit her cervix differently.

    - Go deep, but don't thrust all the way in and out. Rock your hips or hold still when deep so your dick isn't jabbing her cervix with each pump.

    - Fingers are flexible to hit her G-spot just right, but your dick is stiffer. So get her nice and turned on with oral or a vibrator first so she's more receptive when you're in there.

    - Use lots of lube - makes things glide instead of poke. And go slow at first, let her body adjust to having you deeply inside.

    Hope some of that helps man! Just listen to her cues and you'll get the hang of pleasuring her deeply without any pain.

    • Thanks. Yeah, she gets pretty wet but she's really tight, so going slow and using plenty of lube was an obvious must

    • Note taken on tour first three points Re the angles one, we've already tried a lot of positions. She likes it when I have her legs up because I can go deep but that's also the position that's the most risky so far (as far as pain goes)

    • Yeah man tight girls can be tricky business! Lube is def your best friend. Since legs up risks hitting the cervix, maybe try: - Her on top, that way she controls depth and angle. Plus she gets clit stim from your pubic bone. - Doggy but with a pillow under her hips to tilt them up slightly and change the angle of entry. - Spoons position is usually pretty comfy depth-wise too. - Have you tried leaning her forward a bit more in missionary? Could avoid direct cervix contact that way. Main thing is go slow at first in any new position till you find the sweet spot. And check in with her - ask her to show/tell you exactly what motion or depth feels good without pain. Takes some experimenting but you'll dial it in for sure. Keep at it man!

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  • You need to adjust the angle of your dangle if you’re going to venture in that territory. Requires a lot of communication by her being able to tell you what to do. Try some moving your hips in circles so your penis rubs the area around her cervix instead of hitting it head on. She might like that or she can tell you when you hit the right spot and to stay right there. Linda listen!

    • Mmk :)

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  • She has her own unique body design. If you are sleeping with this woman her cues are all that matter.

    • Mmk ig that makes sense

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  • Sounds like BS to me my man, some type of manipulation game to avoid having sex with you. And if it is not that, then she plain a simply is not sexually compatible with you. If that is super important to you then I suggest you move on.

    When the compatibility is truly there, things like this are nonissues.

    • She hasn't avoided having sex with me tho. She actually initiates first lol I mean we've had sex twice lol, I don't think I should jump to deciding we're not compatible. She actually hasn't brought it up as an issue, I just noticed it and wanted to find out if there's a better way.

    • Yup, got it. Good luck. I am sure you two will figure it out.

    • thanks

  • I need the answer to this too!!