She says im too big?

My gf is 19 around 5'2 and i would say 115lbs. we've done handjobs and blowjobs and well i want to go in her vagina but everytime i try to slide in she pushes me away. I think im normal length around 7 inches but i am really girthy. anyways she says im too big but i think its cuz she's a virgin, so is she?
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so im not getting her wet? i think i am but ill try to foreplay more. and lube? i hate having unnautral sex but alright what kind of lube?
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She still refuses to take me :(
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Most Helpful Girls

  • If she is a virgin, she should have told you. It is very possible she is or it is also possible that she is. However, some women cannot handle a lot of girth even if they are not virgins. Either way, if she is uncomfortable, you need to talk to her about it and be patient. Go slow and be gentle the first time. But, do have a conversation about it first!

    • *also possible that she is not (sorry about the typo)

  • Why don't you ask her if she's ready for real sex and if so go slow, inch by inch with lots of lube. Also make sure she's very aroused, wet, and relaxed because if she tenses it'll hurt like hell. And stick to regular missionary with her legs down so you can't go too deep.

  • Im a virgin and my bf has a 10"5 so will i die if he enters, first time it'll obviously hurt but she's gotta be brave like i will, I'm having sex with him on Next week!! So excited.

Most Helpful Guys

  • lol na, you're too small! She doesn't wanna feel like there's a wriggly worm in her pussy!

    JK

    Some girls are tight and it takes patience and lube, my buddy has a horse cock and it's ruined some of his relationships because the girl was never able to enjoy it. Just find a wizard's sleeve I guess. Good luck!

  • She's lying it means she's nervous/its her first time most likely.

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  • Astroglide gel.

  • Well considering normal is 5 inches... yeah, you're bigger than normal.

  • Maybe she just doesn't want to have sex now. You should ask her if she's a virgin or not. None of us will know.

  • Do you do foreplay before you stick it in?

    If she's not properly lubricated, penetration will hurt even more considering your size.

  • Forget the lube. Go down on that sweetness! A good round of oral induced orgasms and she'll be primed and naturally slick to receive you beast! Good luck Don Juan!

  • Is the average really 4.5 - 5 inches? I dont believe that, that is wayy too small

  • I think she is just not ready for sex

  • Well the average for length is 4.5 inches what your size for that?

  • What are you asking?
    You don't believe she's a virgin?

  • She's just playing with you. She likes it. Next time don't go slow just ram it in. That should make her happy.