She thinks all I want is sex.

[tunaman2]

so last week me and my girlfriend had the best sex ever. we love each other. but the last two times we hung out she I tried to get her in the mood. but she told me to stop.. wtf?.. so I did. and I asked if something was wrong, and she said sometimes I feel like all you want is sex. And I explained to her that isn't true. and she won't get as close to me now for some reason.. and I'm starting to think she doesn't like me as much. I don't know maybe she just wants more cuddling time and stuff, instead of sex. maybe she doesn't wanna have sex every time I see her.?and I think I need to show her that I care a lot about her and everything. How can I do this? am I right? help I'm confused . I almost think she's mad at me or something. but we only see each other like twice a week sometimes 3 times. hlep please . I could use any input at all

[ArtistBboy]

There's two likely scenarios:

[Scenario one:]

She wants more interactions with you; hanging out, romance, comittment, etc

[Scenario two:]

She cheated on you and doesn't feel stable going into sexual things without telling you, otherwise she would feel very guilty.

Talk to her, find out what she is looking for - and give her a little of it, don't go full blown (otherwise it seems fake). Grow into doing more things with her, which will improve both of your relations with the other person.

p.s. if you find out she cheated on you, just thank her for the good times together and walk away - hold your composure at all times.

Best regards,

ArtistBBoy

[tunaman2]

Thanks man..how would I find out if she cheated though?

[ArtistBboy]

Don't look for the answer - just embrace the fact that she hasn't cheated on you. Similar to the expression "Kill them with kindness" It will dig at her until she is about to explode (if she has cheated) and she will finally open up and say something. If you go looking - she will get scared and keep it hidden.

[UnknownFox]

Well you pretty much answered the question right here.

"I don't know maybve she just wants more cuddling time and stuff, unstead of sex. maybe she doesn't wanna have sex every time I see her"

[Anonymous]

She's just scared that all she is to you is a whore. Just holding her hand, calling and telling her you love her and saying that's all. Just let her know you love her. And that you want her because you love her. And it'll just take time.