Should a 35 year old still be slutty?

I'm 35 and I'm pretty much as slutty I was in my 20s is that normal my friends tell me I should settle down with a nice guy but I've cheated in all my relationships not really sure if I wanna commit to just one guy.
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  • You sound like you’re a low quality woman tbh. It’s pretty unattractive to see someone with ill morale and no self restraint. You’ve demonstrated that your emotions control you and you’re willing to hurt or destroy anyone just to fulfill those urges. At 35, your slut days should be over. It’s unattractive all around. Men around your age typically don’t want to sleep around. They’re looking for a woman who has depth, character, and values. It’s easy to be attractive and have sex, but it’s difficult to build a relationship with someone of poor morale and values. If they are looking to sleep around, then it’s most likely with someone younger. I think if you continue with this mindset, you’re going to become very depressed and lonely. This isn’t to put you down, but to maybe bring you some perspective so that you strive towards change, The guys on here are virgins and outcasts. They’ll fuck anything with a pulse and suck up to any woman that feeds them attention. I’d take their advice with a grain of salt.

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  • Don't settle down if you're incapable of staying loyal.

    But bare in mind the party will end eventually, coz guys who are after hookups and nothing more will take the youngest (legal) girls they can get, so the mere passage of time will not favour you in that regard. It's a zero sum game.

    But don't get me wrong, hookups are fun and all, but soon you'll be 40, then you'll be 50, and then 60, and someday you could wake up regretting the fact you have nobody by your side because of the choices you made in 20, 30s and onwards.

    So I'm not saying you should run out now and settle for the first wimpy loser who offers to provide for you. But maybe you should give deeper examination to what's gonna be most important in your life beyond the next few months or years. And you definitely should examine your own proclivities to cheat in all your relationships, because those who don't learn from the past are doomed to repeat it. Just food for thought, I ain't judging your choices. But those choices DO have effects in the world, like ripples in a pond, and you should understand how those choices might ripple out over a lifetime if left un-interrogated.

Most Helpful Girls

  • you are so right i need to get a boyfriend and/or husband... i think we should get boyfriends... but i do enjoy random oral sex with a stranger... giving that is... i need to get passed that

  • Do we still call that slutty? You’re just not ready to settle 🤷‍♀️

    • What would you call it?

    • Not ready to settle, still playing the field. I dunno what ever guys who don’t settle get called🤷‍♀️

    • We should be called slutty too men and women can both be whores and while single it should be fine in a relationship is atrocious

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  • You go girl!!! You can be a MILF without kids.

  • I'm still slutty too... albeit for my hubby and girlfriend lol. Just do you and be happy... someday you may meet the one but for now jist be you 😃

  • Do whatever you want, but don't lie to or mislead guys, don't expect anyone to invite you to social gatherings (they'll be afraid that you want to seduce their husbands,) and don't expect anyone to respect you.

  • Cheating is never ok. Just break up with them if you wanna move on. No need to be a cunt about it.

  • Nah slutty is fine, it would be hypocritical for me to say otherwise.

    having fun is great and no need for a relationship unless you want one.

  • Age does not matter. What do you like and want? When I was in my twenties I found many women older than you extremely appealing. And I never felt they were slutty. They were just fun loving and not ready to settle.

  • Uhh, this is totally a troll.

    • Nope

    • Fine, continue being slutty then if you like it.

  • Whether or not you should be slutty has to do with your priorities in life not your age. I would advise against slutty behavior in the work place unless you are an adult entertainer. I would advise against slutty behavior if you want a relationship that leads to marriage and children. That said, I would marry a slut under the right circumstances. If she likes orgies and wants to attend them with me then she can be as slutty as she wants as long as she doesn't have an affair with someone behind my back. Also I want our children exposed to her slutty behavior. As to age. I'm 61 and I don't think it's wrong for a woman my age to be slutty under the right circumstances.

  • I know exactly how you feel girl. I'm actually loving being the single slut when I'm out with friends x

    • @tiffanyrosebarbie I know the feeling as well to me there is nothing better than being a single slut, I would love us being friends and having wild sex with each other im wet thinking about it.

  • you should be as slutty as you want to be for as long as you want to be

  • No, I don't think so.

  • " I've cheated in all my relationships " Why not just be honest and say you aren't looking for an exclusive relationship?

  • Don't agree with cheating. But sleeping with different people while single and just having a good time yeah if you want.

  • It's her choice. But cheating ain't nice.

  • Whatever floats your boat. Social norms are only guidelines.

    Still, cheating is kinda shitty so why bother with a relationship when you only hurt the other person?

  • What are you doing for dinner? Maybe we can grab PIZZA and a beer?

  • If you are still hot I would say go for it if you want. This may be the last chance to do it. It is hard to be slutty at 45.

  • That is up to you...

  • Don’t do it you were a horrible person for cheating (I used to do the same so I speak from experience) no person deserves to be cheated on and if you can’t stay faithful just remain single forget what your friends think do what makes you happy but never at another persons expense that’s just vile and cruel

  • Whether or not you should aside, the reality is that you aren't in an emotional place to commit, so you shouldn't place that burden on yourself.

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