Should a man with a small penis let his girlfriend or wife sleep with other men? Girls, would you do this if your S/O was small?

[Anonymous]

[cavmanier]

I read what you said in other comments. I doubt she would want to touch another man in an intimate way if she loves you. If she does desire a little bigger penis what about trying one of those penis sleeves or you could even use a strap on. Yes the penis would be artificial but you would be touching her during the sex and you would be doing the thrusting that's giving her the pleasure. I bet she would be much more comfortable with that than sex with another guy.

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[Anonymous]

Of course not. Geesh. I would like it if our worth was actually linked to our penis, that way mine would inflate! But it is not.

On the other hand, giving the comments half an eye I am starting to think the OP might want her to. and if you do, then go give the girl the green-light.

[Asker]

It's better than being alone.

[Opinion Owner]

Eh, most girls orgasm from oral, not penetration anyhow. You're fine.

[kaylaS91]

I'd never be with a guy who feels like he has to 'let me' or permit me to do anything, in the first place. If he feels it necessary to give me the green light and sleep with another guy who's a little better hung downstairs though... no, he shouldn't. That's not going to fix the issue of the man's insecurities and feeling inferior because of his dick size or lack thereof.

He should work on himself versus making allowances in an effort to 'keep his woman satisfied'.

[Asker]

I can't make my penis bigger.

[kaylaS91]

Do you feel like the only thing you could ever have to offer a woman would be your penis? No other traits like being loyal, caring, funny... in your eyes, you're nothing but a dick and pair of balls?

[Asker]

There are many, many men in this world who are just as loyal, caring, and funny as me who also have much larger penises.

[kaylaS91]

yes perhaps. In that case, your attitude and inferiority complex is more of a hindrance to your success than your actual dick size.

[Anonymous]

No, not at all. You love someone for who they are... to judge people on physical attributes is just shallow, superficial behaviour.

That's like saying, should a woman with small breasts let her partner fondle women with large breasts (?).

It's not about size, its what he does with it

[Asker]

But what can a guy do with a four inch penis?

[Opinion Owner]

A lot! A girl only needs her fingertips when she is by herself 😉

[Asker]

But I can't fill up a woman.

[BuchitaBuchys]

No. Even if he got into an accident and had no penis, it would be insulting for him to even ask.
For me, sex is more pleasurable with more foreplay. Penetration doesn't have to break me in half for it to be good.

[mandy6650]

No. The man should learn what his woman likes to be able to make her happy in the bedroom. Get creative... Most women don't get off from a penis in them. Get good with your hands... very good ;-)

[AzureGirl]

No? They're with you to be with you. Simple as that.

[Asker]

Why would she settle for a guy who is smaller than 97% of all men?

[AzureGirl]

Because there's so much more to a relationship than sex and there's so much more to a guy than his dick.

[Asker]

If she can't feel anything, it's going to put a huge dent in their sexual relationship, which will spill over into the rest of the relationship.

[AzureGirl]

And if it was such an issue then they wouldn't be with you.

[Mishii]

That is the stupidest question. You believe a small penis is less than satisfying. Now you going to say your penis is 2 1/2 inches long. See a shrink you need one

[Asker]

Four inches, actually. Smaller than most men.

[desidoll]

I have dated a guy who is small and I never even thought of cheating on him. I think when you chose someone to be your partner, you suppose to accept their weaknesses.

[anonuserguy20]

Wow your user name is according to your looks... you actually seriously look like a doll, no wonder.

[Asker]

Did you actually enjoy sex with him?

[desidoll]

Not really, but that wasn't because of his size but his ability to stay hard.

[Asker]

I can get hard as a rock, but I'm still too small.

[desidoll]

I think I would rather date a small guy than a guy who can't stay hard longer. It disappoints women.

[NJ_Casanova]

I don't think so, there are sleeves he could get/use or use a dildo for PIV and do her anally (DP).

[mr90skid]

No but I'll be first in line if they come to that agreement

[Asker]

Must be nice having a big penis.

[mr90skid]

:) sure

[ThisDudeHere]

If she already is your wife, don't you think she has made the concious decision to stay with you despite the predicament?
Sure you could be a pessimist and say that perhaps she married you so that she would have a provider while she fucks others on the side. But that is something we don't know here, only you can.
Either way, if your wife actively ASK you if she can fuck others BECAUSE of your penis, she shouldn't be your wife.

[MissNowhere]

I'd never sleep with anyone else except my SO, no matter the circumstances. So, no.

[Asker]

Even if he was tiny?

[MissNowhere]

I wouldn't be with him if I wasn't satisfied in all aspects of our relationship.

[Asker]

But would a guy with a small penis be able to satisfy you?

[MissNowhere]

You tell me.

[Asker]

I'm guessing your partner is big.

[jjmarvin]

"You tell me" is probably close to the truth. If you think you need surgery i doubt you could satisfy without perfect dick game

[rgb008]

No. Just get a dildo or some other toy for her if you don't think you're big enough.

[Asker]

Why would she settle for a dildo when most guys are bigger than me?

[rgb008]

Because she probably loves you and a strangers penis size doesn't matter to her

[jjmarvin]

The telling part of this is the lack of idea to use toys in the first place. If you're inventive and let her tell you all her secret pleasures, and learn how to give them to her, she will suck your tiny dick with love and satisfaction

[JSmuve]

What? Where's the logic in that? Stop selling yourself short (no pun intended!).

[Asker]

Because I will never fill her up like a bigger guy will. The other option is being alone for life.

[JSmuve]

That shit doesn't matter. All they care about is whether you make them orgasm and feel good. Learn how to do that. You don't need an 8 inch dick to do it either.

[RationalMale]

That's like asking, should a girl with a small chest let her boyfriend bang other women?

The answer to both questions is "hell no."

[Asker]

There's no correlation between penis size and breast size when it comes to sexual satisfaction.

[RationalMale]

Depends on if you're a boob man or not, doesn't it?

[Mr2kinky]

Yep. She needs her pleasure. I let my wife fuck guys with thicker dicks than mine... Just so she gets a variety

[cjs31380]

I allow mine to do the same thing

[Mr2kinky]

@cjs31380 awesome. My kinda guy.

[cjs31380]

Yeah I think every woman should have that right if she wants to

[Mr2kinky]

@cjs31380 not all people would agree with us obviously but we can't worry about their approval.. I respect your decisions and logic. My dick is more than big enough for my wife but I like her to be able to have some dick when I'm unavailable or have multiple at once... whatever...

[cjs31380]

Right I do just fine satisfied my girl she just likes a little variety once in a while

[Mr2kinky]

@cjs31380 😉

[cjs31380]

Have you ever got to watch her have sex

[Mr2kinky]

@cjs31380 hell yes.. Multiple times.. I love watching her ride another guy..

[cjs31380]

Yeah it's pretty hot watching

[Anonymous]

Nope, buy me a dildo and do me with that, I wouldn't need another guy. 😏

[Asker]

So you could be satisfied with a fake penis?

[Opinion Owner]

Yea once in a while, not all the time, I just wouldn't do it with any other guy.

[Anonymous]

i think ye becuz she will eventually cheat on u anyway cuz u can't satisfy her with ur small pecker

[Anonymous]

I'm on the small side and yes I let my girlfriend have sex with other guys

[Asker]

How small?

[Opinion Owner]

It's about 4.5 hard

[Asker]

I'm smaller than that... Are you thin?

[Opinion Owner]

Ya kinda that's about the size of a roll of quarters

[Opinion Owner]

Do let your girl sleep with other guys

[Asker]

Only had one relationship.

[Opinion Owner]

Is that because of your size

[Asker]

Yes.

[Opinion Owner]

If you have a girlfriend would you be willing to let her sleep with someone else

[Asker]

I think I'd rather be alone.

[Opinion Owner]

You don't do something you don't wanna do. It works for me and my girl friends but that's us. Lot of women say they don't care about size and tell it actually happens to them. A lot of people will say it's all in how you use it. But we both know when you're small you rarely get the chance to show how you can use it

[Anonymous]

no, it's cheating

[Anonymous]

I wonder this... but about excess hairy guys... that being an excess hairy guy, if I get into relationships then she should go to other men for sexual satisfaction and not from me.

[Anonymous]

Hell no. Would she let you suck other boobs if she had small one, I guess not. I don't get it why sex is the first priority. Try to compensate it with other skills, fingering and all.

[Asker]

Most men are bigger than me. Why would she settle for unsatisfying sex?

[Opinion Owner]

because she's with you for a reason.

[Asker]

It's not for sex, that's for sure. Sure sex is not the be all end all of a relationship, but it's pretty damn important

[Anonymous]

I'm in that situation. I would only sleep with other men if my boyfriend was okay with it. But he's not. So I don't.

[Asker]

Would you want to, regardless?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know. I've thought about it. But at the same time, I think it would feel a bit like cheating, even if I did have his blessing.