Should a virgin guy be jealous of his girlfriend's wild sexual past? Does he have a point?

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  • You have a right to an opinion and she has a right to live her life the way she sees fit. You do not have a "point". It's just an opinion. Getting laid feels great to most people and so most people seek it out. If she did some "crazy" stuff, then she was experimenting and most likely enjoying herself.

    You can ask about her history, but she doesn't have to tell you. And if you want to have unprotected sex, go to a local clinic for a super inexpensive blood screening. It's a preventative healthcare measure and may even be covered by insurance. Anyways, as long as you both have a clean bill of health and she's not trying to deceive you and lying about having an STD or something, then it's not really any of your business unless she wishes to share. Same if the roles were reversed.

    The blood screenings are usually pretty damn quick too. An Aussie friend of mine was moving to the States and would be passing though a town nearby and would be staying for a week, and she said we should definitely hook up. We never got the chance but it's not a huge ask. A possible fuckbuddy in the past also asked me to get a screening with her, which I did. It can help lay a nice foundation of trust and lift a lot of back of the mind anxiety.

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  • The question is would you question it if it was the other way around? You with the previous sexual history and her a virgin?

    Frankly, why not embrace it and be delighted an experienced woman wants to be with you.

    You should use condoms anyway to prevent spread of any infections. However I would say most women are careful because let's face it, no-one wants an STI.
    Also she may have been in long term relationships with those partners.

    Who are you to judge?

    • Well , that is another way to look at it.. but the experience gab , wouldn't even annoy her?

    • Perhaps but It probably wouldn't be a deal breaker. If he has such a problem with it he can move along and to someone he doesn't feel threatened by due to lack of experience.

    • Okay.. that is another point.. the main point here is him being jealous.. jealousy is natural with love..

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  • I think a bit of jealousy is natural but don't let it ruin the relationship.

    • So what should i do? will she compare me to others?

    • Maybe but there's nothing you can do about that. Everybody makes comparisons on everything. Just don't think about it, focus on your relationship.

    • What if she had sex much better than with me?

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  • A virgin guy who's jealous of his girlfriend's wild sexual past doesn't deserve her.

  • I don’t think so. I think he should look forward to some very good training.

    • What do you mean?

    • Assuming the girl won't be like "you are the man, i am not supposed to teach you"... Then I agree with you

    • I am sure her previous practice and experience will be shared

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  • There is no reason for any guy to be jealous of anything that a woman has done in her past you didn't even know her then the moment your relationship starts is the moment that your relationship starts
    If you get into a relationship and you start being jealous of her past you might as well say goodbye like it in there because it's never going to work
    Don't ask questions to the answers that you don't want to hear

  • Alright, what are the differences?

    He has higher chance of getting std from her that she from him. And she might compare him to all previous guys.

    Is any of that a reason to be jealous?

    • Comparing him to other guys is awesome.. He imagining her doing nasty sexual things to other guys is awesome.. sure stds are lovely he should be super happy for all that

  • I don't see a reason to be jealous because of it tbh.

    • seriously? why shouldn't he be jealous?

    • Why would he? I get it if he is scared because of STDs, but being jealous because she slept with guys before him is immature.

    • i don't see how being jealous makes him immature.. jealousy is natural with love.. she had sex with other guys, she did a lot of wild sexual things with them.. many positions and many plays.. she orgasmed for them and they have enjoyed her ! should he be happy for that?

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  • No, he doesn't. The past is past and he needs to get the fuck over it. It sounds like he's mad at the universe because he was unhappy the past while she was enjoying herself. This sounds like repressed anger. He needs to get over it or he will ruin every relationship.

  • Nope, it is in the past.
    If you dig deep enough you can find something in anyone's past that you might not like.
    We all have a past.

  • Not at all, you just have NO idea what you talking about in a way. No experience no say in other words.

  • He should be proud to have that girl at this moment. Because the moment won't last if you won't act fast. It's sad I know but it's the reality. Get the best out of it. Cheers!

  • in some cases a persons sexual history can haunt them or their partner. because while they might not think about it on a conscious level that often. one or both are likely to think about it on a subconscious level from time to time.

  • If he's jealous, he shouldn't be with her. Or he should equal the numbers before marrying her...

  • I think it's ok to be envious. But not jealous. You should be happy for positive things in your partners life.

  • It is kinda normal for lots people so I would not worry too much

    • What is normal?

    • Some have slept with more than 3 and depends how old

    • I am a virgin guy.. so not all people do that..

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  • Not if she’s let it all go to stay in her past. Otherwise you’re being jealous of something that doesn’t exist.

  • No. Everyone has a past. If he doesn’t like or can’t deal with her’s then he should move on.

  • Jealous, no, but she should only be seen as a plaything and not a serious relationship.

  • No man should date a woman with a wild sexual past. This is light cuckolding and morally wrong to engage in. Fuck her and then dump her. The end. Problem solved.

  • Emotions are always valid. Logic or reason is how we process it. So jealousy is natural and of course ok to feel.

    But find out why it bothers you. Is it really your sheepishness about being a virgin? I know I felt that way, up to til 20. Talk about late bloomer. Other guys I talk to are older. It really doesn’t matter.

  • Kind of sense women don't have to work as hard as men do to get sex or because women don't have to pursue like men do

  • Jealous to the point it bothers you? If so, that's a sign that you may not be a "match" and right for each other. If it's already a "problem" for you, best to "fix it" now (by talking with her), otherwise it might be a constant issue in your relationship until you do.

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