Should girls be stil or bounce back during sex?

When having sex what do guys prefer girls do?
Should the girl be very still and just show her liking by yawning in order for the guy to control the bounce? And if so where is the line between very still and dead fish?
Or should the girl be more active and bounce back, or would that ruin the flow? And if so when is it too much and is there a certain way to bounce better?
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  • It's great if she can bounce back, BUT only if she can match his rhythm - otherwise you'll be fighting against each other. She's also got to know not to pull back too much, or he'll pop out of her all the time, which gets annoying. The actual answer really varies on the couple involved, how well they know each other, how good their rhythm is, and what speed they're going at. Having her move tends to work better when he's thrusting more slowly, and not as well if he's thrusting more quickly, because her angle is different and requires her moving a lot more of her body to meet his, and she can only do that so fast and for so long. So, if he shifts up to high speed, just stay still at that point and let him pound you.

    Don't forget that there's still lots you can do: make noises, make facial expressions, nod, hold/rub/squeeze his arms, play with your boobs, rub your clit, etc. All of that tells him that you're "in the moment" with him, and he's always going to like that.

  • Bounce or thrust if it feels good to you, especially if you're on top. In my experience the couple naturally gets in sync with the perfect amount of bounce. No thinking required. Even if you prefer not to bounce you don't have to be a dead fish. You can be vocal and tell him what you like. Depending on the position you're in you can play with his balls, your boobs, or finger yourself. In missionary, you can hold his butt and pull him into you as he thrusts if it feels good.

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  • Fucking hell don't yawn lol.

    Pushing back is good, you'll get into a rhythm.

  • Yawning? I hope that was a joke.

  • The girl should get into and show emotion, moan and be active. When on top and up and down movement is great followed by some forwards and backwards moving (almost in a rowing motion). When in missionary, thrust your hips up while he thrusts and lock your legs around his butt. Those are just some starter tips.

  • A good question that separates fantasy from practicality.
    For Cowgirl, its OK for both of us to grind around a little.
    Bit otherwise, and especially when I'm going for orgasm, it is better that she lay still. But not limply, stiffly. Hold on to the the headboard and provide resistance to movement. That way, I can manage the depth and speed I need to cum. What she can do to help her cum is to coach me. Deeper... faster... etc.

  • Definitely bounce bounce back. We want to feel that the girl want us back and enjoying it. I dont mind the girl not doing so. But at least dirty talk or make out. do something dont make me feel like a fucking necrophiliacs

  • Get into it. Bounce back. Grind your hips into him. Sex is better when the woman participates. Don't worry about looking like slut or whatever. Just have fun with the sex

  • No, don't be still, just don't bounce on my dick, lol.

  • Are you for real?

  • Does not matter as long as she does not make noise while being with me like that.

  • It varies

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