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Sexual Health I myself prefer I orgasm several times before he does because once he does, it's over.
Should he or she orgasm first?
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11 58She should
Id go for her 1st or at same time is even better
I wish I could orgasm as much as a females can. I'm lucky if I can do it twice in one night
Now that I'm older and heading to senior citizen age group. Lately I been one and done and I hate it.
I want my youth back. Only to be in my 20s again. Young dumb and full of cum as the saying went
I can still make my wife organism before me most of the time, but that window is closing.
Getting old sucks ass
Ladies first as guys can lose interest after they’ve done or not have it in them to continue.
She should, obviously... the sex is over when he finishes.
Its a loaded debate, if both partners are enjoying the sex, neither can control or postpone an orgasm.
I always try to get her off first. Then me. But it doesn't always happen. So we try all the usual first. She is one of those that it takes awhile to get off. Just some females are like that. But she knows i try. So if i go first, she doesn't mind.
As long as I only cum in her... lol
Tbh... every girl I've been with get a lot more than my cum in her. They get a piece of me everytime. Its a lot deeper than just cum.
I’ve always looked at it from two perspectives. Wait for to go first if she feels the sex is good and she can. If she says “you go ahead” then I would usually rub her love button after I go or give oral until she does.
Her first. If I do though I will continue until it's reciprocated. It's rare I do first. I take a little time to.
Of course it should be the woman, unless she's giving you a present. LOL
I always make sure she has several orgasms before I cum. Ladies should always be first.
Right!
Not all guys see it that way. A lot of guys just cum and don't bother giving his partner an orgasm at all
Definitely rude of them! Like so she's left to finger herself because it's over?
Yes it is rude and also disrespectful. With me it's like the saying " it ain't over till the fat lady sings" . I don't like how they make the woman's size stand out and I usually omit that but you get the idea
She should orgasm first. And then again and again and again. :)
She. Preferable at least twice or thrice.
Im going to agree with this. Once I cum my energy is spent, it can take a good 30 minutes for round 2. So YES she should cum first.
Me first I'm a busy guy
Usually the girl. I can get my O started / going after she is on her way to her O / completing her O.
Whomever feels lije orgasming
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You answered the question in your own description!
Yes that should be the routine as guys sometimes “deflate” after our orgasm. Sometimes I can be awoken again. But don’t depend on that!
I always want her to cum first, preferably multiple times. I can wait 30-45 mins if necessary before I cum, giving her time to cum a lot. Then when I cum, I cum when she cums, makes the orgasms so much stronger for both of us.