Should I allow my boyfriend to touch me? is it important in relationship? How many month after dating u allowed your boyfriend to touch u?

Is sexual intimacy is important in early period of relationship?
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  • People touch each other when in a relationship. For instance, holding hands. If you are not allowing any touch, then you are signalling that you do not like him. When people like each other more than casually, they often allow intimate touching, like touching your private areas. How much you allow depends on how much you like him and trust him, and what your beliefs on such touching are. If intimate touching with him is okay with you, then you can decide to allow that kind of touching. How much is up to you. After a long time that may even include having sex. It is up to you.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Intimacy between partners is important from when they first meet. But intimacy does not necessarily mean sex. It can be talking about things with each other, doing things together, holding hands, kissing... and maybe eventually having sex, when both partners are ready, willing and able.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I would start with question, what are you afraid of? Don't you like him? Does he have problems with hygiene? Did uou have negative experiences?

    Touch (not only sexual but just a touch) is one of forms of showing and sharing emotions. If you are afraid or unsure don't stress it but find out the reason of your negative impressions

  • How many months? Your relationship isn't going to last if you don't even touch each other, at least occasionally. And really, what's the point in even being in a relationship if that's the case? Why bother? You may as well be single.

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  • He should be touching you 5 month before you 2 are even together.

  • You shouldn't be intimate unless you and this guy plan to be together long term. This should help filter shitty partners

  • There’s no law or textbook about that. You do what feels right for you but your boyfriend may desire other things and so don’t be upset if he decides to stop dating you because he’s not getting what he wants out of the relationship

    • Oo so what should I do

    • You should do what you’re comfortable with. You’re in control of yourself

    • I don't want breakup fr. Thing is he is experienced and I'm not

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  • It’s up to you guys really when you start doing stuff together

  • Yes you should. Unless your not comfortable with it. But to deny him to do anything unless your inexperienced is weird.

    • I'm completely inexperienced. He had a single relationship in past, but it didn't worked out. Now we are dating each other and are in official relationship, it's been 3 months. he wants to try all kind of sexual things with me except sex coz I already told him, we can have sex after marriage. so he is ready too. But the thing I'm feeling 😶 really uncomfortable when he touch me lol 😶maybe for the first time

    • Maybe you don't truly like him then. A lot of girls don't have hormones at all. If you don't let him do anything he will eventually cheat or leave.

    • Ooh I can understand u. I like him a lot

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  • Do what you feel comfortable with and what feels right for you and doesn't compromise your values.

    • We had sex after few days.
    • First day we touched each other.
    • Currently living together my girlfriend.
  • I came if age in the 80's and started at 12, multiple girls by 15 when had sex first time (by the way I HATE the term taking / losing virginity and the puritanical bullshit that lies behind it). My answer: When you're ready, when it's safe, when it's consensual and when you feel that someone is worthy of you. That's all.

  • It is your body and your choice. Just tell him what the boundaries are ahead of time. Do you want to touch him? How old are you two?

    • Older than u haha

    • But I'm inexperienced and he is experienced like only he had one relationship in past

  • How much do you trust your boyfriend?

    • I trust him but I feel little weird when he touch me. We both love each other a lot. It's my first time. I'm hella inexperienced

  • Months? You should let him touch you immediately and have sex no later than the third date.

    • What was your experience

    • Pretty much what I said. All. except two women I've dated have had sex with me on the second date.

    • No later than third date? Why is there so many rules in the dating world?

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  • Yes and yes it is important but do what you're comfortable with

  • Only you can tell if you want this. Don't feel like you have to

  • Only if you're certain you want it to happen

  • When you are ready. It is probably best to wait until marriage for sexual intimacy.