Guys, Should I ask my boyfriend to do anal with me?

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I really like anal and i would like to do it with my boyfriend but when we have talked about it in past he has said that why fuck in the butt when you have a vagina. I would also like to lick him down there but i'm afraid he won't feel comfortable with it. We have totally stayed away from each others butts.

Guys, do you think i should ask it because i have gotten an idea that it seems disgusting to him so i'm obviously embarrassed to ask it.. Makes me feel like a dirty ho. How to get a real idea if he would actually want to try it?

Vanjasper · Accepted Answer

Just like women, some guys aren't into anal, or anything to do with anal play. Maybe get him drunk enough to try it, and see how it goes with him. Alcohol can help remove inhibitions, but not to much alcohol for guys, he might ride you sore before he cums.

triff · Accepted Answer

Explain to him as you have here that Anall is something really important to you but not as important as you I would just like us to try it and if it's something we both don't like then that's cool We can try other things

Markm3212 · Answer

just ask him and say to him that you enjoy it and would like it if he would do it every now and again, in return you will play out one of his fantasies?

NightSh4dow · Answer

Of course you can ask, but don't get angry if he doesn't want it, respect him ;)

prelude22 · Answer

If he won't, I will ;)

dannymexico90 · Answer

What a lucky mother fucker. Wow powwow. Your so rare

cattertone · Answer

you could try convincing him that it'll feel really good for him

Thinkthought · Answer

it never hurts to just ask. the worst thing he can do is say no. I love both but I'm open to sexual exploration. is your boyfriend sexually open?

Arnab6969 · Answer

just ask him.

myklPLUTO · Answer

Hmm... looks like I have inadequate info on this species of men. lol, anyway ask him again. Sometimes people might say no so others don't think they're nasty and stuff like that so you have to assure him you're absolutely cool with it. Or he just isn't familiar with any deviation from basic sex. Or he just doesn't like it. Now I'm off to find your clone.

Regular1 · Answer

You could always Lube yourself up, climb on top cowgirl style and slip it in your back door. Once he realises what's going on he'll be enjoying it too much to say anything about it.

Tezzy69 · Answer

Worth a try, but both of you must feel comfortable with it or it won't be fun. x

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