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Should I be ashamed for 25 body’s and lot for a 19 year old?

Ik 25 is a big number and Ik a lot of people will agree I feel so embarrassed of it and I REALLY wish I could take it all back. I feel so disgusted with my body and I feel the only reason I had so many was because how insecure I was with myself. I lost my virginity at 15 and most of these body’s were from 15-18 growing up I was always called ugly and when boys gave me attention or even just wanted me sexually it made me feel good. But I now regret my mistakes and I want to move on I just don’t know how I feel so man will ever take me seriously if they knew.
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  • No, that is apart of your path towards becoming who you are today and even who you are down the road as long as you change. If you improve yourself and hold higher standards for the people you have sex with/date, then no one will care. People care about what your actions that are recent and how you treat others including yourself.

    For me, I struggled having massive anger issues for a good chunk of my life and did fucked up shit. However, I actively decided to deal with it, so I did. I am not ashamed of my history, since it led to who I am today. No one else gives a shit either, since those things I did are in my past - not something I am continuing today.

    By the way, I have dated a girl who had a 'hoe phase' not long before meeting me, which I didn't know about initially. I didn't care though, since she was very honest about it and communicated with me effectively on shit. I trusted her and it was in her past.

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  • They might take you seriously as a person and respect you but I know many will avoid you for relationships because I know this will sound extremely rude but personally the way I see it and why it's a turn off to me it's cause I see nothing special about sex with that specific woman if she gave it up to a bunch of other men, it basically takes away the special feeling about it because she didn't value it how she was suppose too and there's other women out there that have less bodies on them and even better, value it and don't give it up like that, the truth is that the will get repulsed my it, or at least the men that look for something serious and want that special connection, don't get me wrong it's still possible for you to find someone that will look past it but the changes are way slimmer because the truth is people don't just forget about the past like it never happened because it's impossible cause it happened and they know it.

    • This is very understandable and I wished I valued it more but I can’t do anything about it now:(

    • Didn’t mean the last emoji lol

    • Yep, you can't do anything besides keep moving forwards so I recommend you do that.

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  • So you made choices then that you wouldn’t make now. Let it go. We all make mistakes when we’re young and immature to various degrees. Just be the person you want to be today and forgive yourself. You can’t change the past but you can change how you react to it. You’re also under no obligation to share your past with anyone. That’s your private business. You can share it if you choose but be aware that there are a lot of “holier than thou” people out there who will hold your past against you forever. Personally, I don’t put much importance on body counts anyway. The idea that sex is somehow bad or dirty stems from the mythology of religion and it doesn’t make a lot sense to give that any weight.

  • I took this pic on my profile pic at 26. I don’t think there’s something wrong with my body because I am 26.

    • Well If your 26 with 26 I don’t think that’s bad but I’m 19 my body count is higher then my age which is embarrassing

    • My body count is 1.

    • I misunderstood your question l, I thought you asked about your body shape.

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  • Certainly.

  • That's a lot of unnecessary soul ties. This culture promotes casual sex and high body counts but nothing useful or good will ever come out of it. All you can do is repent, forgive yourself and stop that behavior.

    • Yess the soul ties are terrible I wanna get rid of them I’d love to throw my body out n get a new one but ur right all I can do is forgive at this point

    • You can do things to address the soul ties. Maybe teach other women from your mistakes too. I know an older woman that tries to teach younger women but they don't listen. It's still good to try though. Only through God, scripture and self love can you start to recover from any of this. And also having the courage to be honest about it with men, as opposed to the lying everyone suggests. When we lie, we are not accepting ourselves...

  • No, you shouldn't. Do what you want as long as you behave ethically. No one gets a vote besides you and your partners.

  • Most good quality men won't want someone like that, but I'd suggest still being honest/up front about it with any potential future partners because if you lie, they will eventually find out and then lying will be an issue on top of your past. Plus, why waste your time and someone else's time if they will leave after finding out. It is better to know up front.

    People are responsible for the decisions they make in life and they have to live with the consequences of those decisions.

  • Ok, we all make mistakes. And we can't change the past. So don't even try to think about it. The only thing that actually matters about the past is if you learned anything, that you took some wisdom out it. You are now a different person then the one you where back then. And its the person you are now that matters. I fucked around a lot when i was younger. But now i don't, I'm more interested in something lasting then i am in the next sexual thing. It's ok.

  • Wrong choices, tough consequences. All you can do is stop being so promiscuous now. Also, try not to hide it from your potential partner because the moment he gets the idea, he might leave you anyway.

    • So should I hide it or no?

    • Don't.

  • so dont tell them..

    • I probably won’t bc Ik they will not want me

  • Best to keep that quiet.

  • Its just a number

  • 25? you are still a kid and loads of time. I was and still am disgusted by body.

    But at least someone called you ugly. 29 and getting fit now. Half way there.

    Anyway looks help but not everything for relationship if that's what you are looking for.

  • It's not a talking point; that's for sure. But what's done it done; no point in beating yourself up over it

    • It’s very hard not to :/

  • Here's my honest opinion: don't worry! So I'm a guy who wants to marry a virgin, right? But I'm not gonna judge a girl who isn't a virgin or has a high body count, especially if she tells me herself. As long as going forward me and my partner are loyal and honest with each other sexually there is noooo problem Besides, there are some pros to being with a girl who knows what she's doing lol.

  • No big deal, let it go

  • you should be proud for your experiences.

  • First off stop making excuses, you were are disgusted or insecure, you made a choice, you wanted to have sex and personally you did enjoy the majority of it.

    Just because you feel people will judge you, don't make an excuse for enjoying the pleasures of sex.

    I mean so what if you had sex with 25 guys, you felt desired, you wanted physical intimacy.

    If you want a guy in the future to take you seriously and not only in a sexual way then stear clear of any sex talk and don't show anything revealing like cleavage. Act like the innocent girl next door. Don't have sex on the first date and the key factor is seem interested in any hobbies he likes if you want to see him more.

  • Ashamed no, but try to be more wise sounds like you are on a hormone spree

    • I really was back then I don't know why I feel like it bc I never got attention from boys until those ages not an excuse tho

    • Well careful what you do with your body and especially soul there is plenty of time for attention the deeds are done but yeah the age was durely not appropiate

  • When did you decide to be embarrassed?

    • I’ve kinda always was until I told a close friend my body count n she ended up being a snake n told everyone and they shamed TF outta me

    • So you knew that what you were doing was wrong - at least for you - but you did it anyway. Have you learned a lesson from this experience?

    • I mean I was very young n stupid I didn’t think it was that bad bc men do it all the time and no one says anything I think the reason I feel so ashamed is bc of what others say

  • It’s a lot but you can always just lie about it, problem solved lol

    • Lies won't work. Truth is shown through body language, actions, tone of voice, what we say and so many other aspects.

    • I could lie but it’s like I feel guilty about it

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