Should I be disgusted by what my boyfriend told me?

I've been with my boyfriend for over 1 year now
he's 29 and im 22
So he's quite older than me

Then we started to talk about our past secrets
I've told him mine
And he told me his
And one of them.. I got quite disgusted

He went to Thailand 2 years ago
He told me:
- there's a lot of hot trannies in Thailand and that they look like real women
- he received a blowjob from a hot tranny

That disgusted me

Am I right to be disgusted?
Or im over reacting?
No you're over reacting
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You're right to be disgusted that's some stomach turning stuff. Could mean he's a homo too , what man messes around with dudes but a homo? Even if he's not he's got the instincts of a lizard to even be able to do that. God that's nasty.

  • Yuck dump his sorry ass. He has had grannies give him diseases and got fucked by them. Sorry for your lose huge red flag

Most Helpful Girls

  • You can feel disgusted by it, but it’s in the past. And at least he trusts you enough that he dares to tell you this.



  • As long as he's honest and faithful now, you should just consider it done.

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  • Meh. To me its a big issue. I'm not into dating men into tranny's. I think it says a lot about a person.
    But depends on you.

  • Yeah you’re right to be disgusted.. good luck with that one.

    • Yeah don’t let these people talking about how it’s not a big deal and what’s done is done get to you. The dude went to Thailand and got a blowjob from a gay guy who probably gives blowjobs to as many guys as he can get his mouth around. If that isn’t the epitome of stupidity and low self worth then there is no such thing as stupidity and low self worth. Now if you wanna take that and help him work on himself then that’s up to you. But this crap about no big deal what’s done is done is just hogwash that’ll end up getting you into crap you want no part of. Those people are idiots.

  • Who cares? Did he also say the tranny gave better head than you or something?

    • No he never said that

    • Then why should you care if some time ago someone fellated him? It matters if the person is a biological female or not?

  • Ya he gay leave him he could of gave you a disease going to Thailand like that.

  • That's disgusting and the fact that he told you about it makes me wonder if he liked it more than he's telling you. If it had ever happened to me I would have never ever told anyone.

  • I'd be disgusted if I had a girl and she messed about with dykes.

  • Yes. You should be disgusted.

  • I dont know what to say, i would be disgusted too.. if its my boyfriend talking.. but on the other hand I dont want to disrespect those trans woman.. as well

  • Yeah maybe a little disgusted but at least that’s in the past

  • Ha that’s nothing. If u dig through most of guys past, you may find a lot of stuff u don’t want to know. Lol.